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Contents

On Crime p4

(A)legal

Part One: Transformative Justice p 11

Beautiful, Difficult, Powerful p 13

Chrysalis Collective

Accounting for Ourselves p 3 0

Crimethlnc

Part Two: Retribution p 6 2

“Anarchist” Rapist Gets the Bat: We’ll Show p 6 3

You Crazy Bitches Part II (2010)

Anon

i. Communique p64

Anon

Beyond Revenge & Reconciliation: p 6?

demolishing the straw men

(A)legal

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This zine looks at contemporary anarchist theory and practice on
crime and justice, though it won't be using these terms. The first half
will be a critical examination of Transformative Justice-based
accountability processes, an approach with origins in US anarchist
circles now taking seed in parts of Europe. The other half looks at
retributive approaches, such as survivor-led direct action against
rapists.

On Crime argues that we need to reconsider what we understand
as problem behaviour before searching for solutions. In doing so, it
attempts to lay the conceptual ground for the subsequent
discussions.

Beautiful, Difficult, Powerful presents an accountability process in
detail. It is a zine in its own right and has been taken from the book
The Revolution Starts at Home: confronting intimate violence within
activist communities.

Accounting for Ourselves gives an excellent overview of the
history and difficulties of accountability processes. Written by the
anarchist collective, Crimethlnc, it is very much rooted in US punk
and DIY culture.

“ Anarchist” rapist gets the bat and Communique are statements
written by groups in the US who've taken direct action to physically
confront their rapists.

Beyond Revenge & Reconciliation seeks to draw together the
points of disagreement and lessons learnt to help develop a
pragmatic and anti-dogmatic approach to dealing with oppressive
behaviour in our communities.

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By (A)legal

The title of this zine comes from a question frequently asked of
anarchists. The question presents a powerful challenge to anarchist
ideas, as we have neglected to engage meaningfully with the issue in
favour of idealised notions of a post-capitalist, anarchic future. The
concern should not be restricted to rapists and other sexual offenders,
but understood to encompass other forms of abusive behaviour such as
domestic violence, child abuse and animal abuse. As we'll see later,
most acts currently considered crimes have been left out of this piece,
either because they are relatively minor and can be addressed without
too much difficulty, or wouldn't be understood as a problem or a 'crime'
in the absence of the state. The vast majority of offences come under
these last two categories; consider, for example, possession of a
bladed article, fraud, or failure to observe conditions of leave to remain
in a country - to cite just a few examples.

Why we need to talk about crime

Yet the fact that many of today's offences would not be understood as a
problem under anarchy does not excuse our failure to develop practical
mechanisms for dealing with unacceptable behaviour. Despite the
enormous scale of problems like gendered violence, anarchist
responses are all too often either evasive, kneejerk, or otherwise
woefully inadequate. A common response when asked about what we
would do is to simply repeat the trite refrain that most crimes would not
be seen as such in anarchist terms (e.g. in a society without property,
fraud, theft and so on would no longer exist), while other crimes (e.g.
rape and intimate partner violence) would be rare due to the strong and
supportive social bonds and the radically different values that
anarchism entails; i.e. a robust critique of gender, sexual norms and
hierarchy in general. All this is true, but it is delusional to think that this
implies a world without transgressions or oppressive behaviour.

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Far from being a hermetically-sealed system, capitalism is a culture or
constellation of cultures; an amalgam of values, desires and practices
that affect how we relate to ourselves, each other, and other species
with whom we share this planet. Racism, patriarchy, and
overexploitation of the land can equally be found in cultures that would
not otherwise be understood as capitalist.

Post-capitalist or non-capitalist societies would not be static entities,
either, but dynamic worlds in a state of perpetual growth and ongoing
struggle against deeply incorporated capitalist desires and practices.
The so-called 'overthrow of capitalism' entails nothing less than financial
collapse and a constant struggle against capitalist values. As such,
even in a world without capitalism as an economic system buttressed
by property law, we will still have to contend with unlearned oppressive
behaviour, as well as issues we may feel we have little control over.
These include abusive behaviour rooted in biological predispositions,
tendencies towards certain 'mental illnesses', or inferiority complexes;
and conflicts driven or mediated by scarcity and access to resources.
Examples include conflicts fuelled by housing needs, and even the role
comrades' limited time and energy play in our responses to oppressive
behaviour.

Collapse of the capitalist economy and the growth of subjugated value
systems - such as radical conceptions of gender and sexuality - would
undoubtedly eventually diminish the scale of abuses, but this struggle
against domination is, and always will be, a continual process. These
oppressive behaviours are also just as much a part of the problem as
government itself; i.e. our fight against abusive partners and rapists is
just as critical as our fight against the sadistic, racist cops that come
round to deal with them.

In view of this, it makes little sense to wait for 'our moment' - a crisis in
government, the next economic crash - or talk about 'crime after the

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revolution'; we need to build anarchist cultures here and now, fighting
acts of domination and abuse every day. This means developing ideas
and practices for responding to unacceptable behaviour taking place in
our communities now.

Class

Another reason we should not be dismissive of concerns about crime
and criminal justice is that these issues overwhelmingly affect poor
communities. Violent crime not only hits the poor hardest, but provides
an excuse for social cleansing in which all those that cannot be readily
incorporated into the capitalist system of docile workers and consumers
are dumped in our ever-expanding prison system.

Race

The criminal justice system also serves as the executive arm of the
racist state. In the US, the country with the world's largest - and
greatest per capita - prison population, and an archetype for Britain and
its other neoliberal friends, one third of African American men are either
in prison, on probation or on parole. Here in the UK, the picture is not
much brighter; black people are seven times more likely to be stopped
and searched than their white counterparts, and make up 15% of the
prison population despite representing just 2.2% of the overall
population.

Patriarchy

As an anarchist, I'm against prisons, not least because they're anti
black and poor. But if we believe in solidarity and the unity of struggles,
then we (collectively - men included) need to be working on radical
alternatives to prison that seek to address every woman's fear of
gendered and sexual violence, harassment, and intimidation, because
these plagues are our daily reality.

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Reframing how we think about crime

Key to broaching this issue from an anarchist perspective is to question
all assumptions about what we think we know on crime, law and justice.
This means both evading the trappings of mainstream analyses and
sidestepping the dogmas of radical discourses. Here, I present some
common ways of characterising the problem, with a view to developing
an conceptual framework that can be used for anarchists trying to
navigate this issue.

“Crime”

Crime is the term used by the state to designate behaviour it will not
tolerate. Legally speaking, a crime in English law is considered an injury
or harm to the state, represented in the Crown. The state then assumes
responsibility for dealing with the offence, from arrest and trial to
sentencing. All power and agency is removed from the victim,
community, and defendant and handed over to professionals. The
process of trial and sentencing can be traumatic for both victim and
offender and unsatisfying for the victim. The criminal justice system cuts
off an entire section of society - a marked, criminal class - who then
struggle to be 'rehabilitated' into the world outside.

The notion of crime is used to create fear and division and in turn
serves a multitude of desires of the powerful. For instance, criminalising
property damage and disorder creates a safe environment for investors,
allowing capitalism to thrive. Criminalising migration by the poor
maintains the integrity of borders (and thus the state), sustaining the
class system and extreme wealth accumulation. The indefinite domestic
terror threat justifies military campaigns abroad, while being hardline on
crime in general serves as a distraction from the root causes of social
problems, and is a guaranteed vote winner as a result. Control over the
definition of crime protects the theft of the commons and a string of

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otherwise indefensible actions by the powerful. Anarchist visions of
unacceptable behaviour differ radically from the concept of crime, so no
radical approach should be using the term to imagine and build an
alternative reality. There are many extensive critiques of the concepts of
law and crime (try Kropotkin for starters), so they won't be explored
further here.

“Transgressions”

A transgression is the violation of a social norm. For anarchists this can
be a useful way of characterising the problem, as it sidesteps current
legal conventions and emphasises the subjective nature of standards of
acceptable behaviour. At the same time, we anarchists reject many
social norms, and transgression is necessary to resist oppressive
cultures. A transgression in itself therefore shouldn't be seen as a
problem, so this doesn't particularly help us identify problematic
behaviour.

“Violence”

The principal focus of many groups exploring alternatives to the cops
and courts, has been that of violence or harm, and on developing ‘anti¬
violence strategies’. Yet this problematisation of violence is rooted in a
liberal approach that either fails to see transgressions in the context of
structural oppression, or uses inconsistent logic in thinking about our
struggles. For example, a considerable number - if not majority - of
anarchists would support revolutionary violence against the state and
capital, or against fascists or homophobic aggressors. Yet, for some
reason, many also reject the use of violence or coercion against those
who assault their partners, those who rape, and those who abuse.
There seems to be a failure to appreciate the fact that those acts too
are often rooted in systems of domination that must be destroyed.
These double standards suggest at best unjoined up thinking, at worse,
a relegation of patriarchy to a place of secondary importance. Further,

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this negation of violent or coercive responses to rape is perpetuated by
two prevailing beliefs: a) the idea that retribution is harmful for victims
and perpetrators, and b) the idea that retaliation makes the victim ‘as
bad as the perpetrator'.

Another problem, is that the word 'violence' has come to be used in
broad terms to incorporate omissions (such as the 'violence' of
passivity), and even language or ideas that have the potential to cause
harm or discomfort to others (witness recent debates around
accountability processes in the US). This is another reason I find
violence an unhelpful focus of analysis for anarchists.

It's not violence that should be seen as the determinant factor in
anarchist ethics, because there is also a violence that liberates, and
because many of us see violence as playing an essential part in the
struggle against the state and capital; we have a strong history of using
tactics that could be considered violent. Instead, we should continue to
understand these problems as issues of power, and we should seek to
develop responses to domination , or abuse of that power.

“Domination”

Domination is described by Michel Foucault, as relations that are ‘fixed
in such a way that they are perpetually asymmetrical and allow an
extremely limited margin of freedom’. In other words, domination is not
merely the fleeting exercise of power over others - which, it could be
argued, we all do in some form or another in our social interactions.
Instead, domination is the exercise of considerable control over others -
and can be understood as much in individual terms (e.g. over the
course a certain relationship, a woman has come to wield considerable
control over her male partner), as in systemic terms (a man coerces his
female partner into sex on one occasion, in the context of a patriarchal
society in which male control over women is widespread).

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Re-framing crime as a fight against domination allows us to re-orient
our focus towards structural inequalities, corresponding with anarchist
principles. Its does, however, suffer the shortcoming that not everything
that we would oppose necessarily fits neatly into structural or fixed
patterns of control.

“Abuse of power”

Approaching the issue in terms of the abuse of power, on the other
hand, meets this need. We don't have a problem with power as such,
but oppose its misuse and abuse to perpetuate systems of domination.
Abuses cover acts of aggression which don't necessarily fit neatly into
any 'category' of structural domination such as racism, homophobia and
so on. A good example of this is a mugging, which might involve the
perpetrator(s) exploiting their superior strength, size or numbers. The
perpetrator is in a position of power, which may not necessarily (or
should have to) fit within our understanding of systemic oppression, and
that power (e.g. superior size), has been exploited. Yet this can of
course intersect with structural inequalities, such as the expropriation of
wealth by the poor. All factors will therefore need to be taken into
consideration in any given case.

Conclusion

When navigating the minefield of 'crime' and 'justice' then, we need to
critically consider how we understand problem behaviour. Rather than
thinking in terms of crime or violence, both of which perpetuate liberal
and statist discourses, an anarchist approach should be concerned with
issues of power. Broaching the problem in dual terms of acts of
domination and abuses of power accomodates both a systemic
understanding of oppression and the exploitation of superior power in a
given moment.

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Accountability processes, examined in detail in the next section, are
grassroots, dialogue-based responses to abuses of power founded on
principles of Transformative Justice ('TJ'). While not a fully-fledged
theory, TJ has origins in some indigenous practices, mediation work,
and Restorative Justice ('RJ'), which it closely resembles. Like RJ, it
strongly opposes punitive responses to crime, places the parties in
conflict at the centre of the process, and is (in theory at least),
voluntary. Like RJ, it facilitates understanding between individuals, and
allows them to agree steps to 'repair' the harm caused. However, TJ
advocates have rightly accused Restorative Justice of being coopted by
the state, which undermines its potential to challenge structural
inequalities. For instance, in the case of domestic violence, restorative
justice at best 'restores' both parties to the unequal positions they held
before the abuse took place.

A number of groups and NGOs have claimed allegiance to TJ, despite it
remaining theoretically very underdeveloped. Some groups, like
Generation FIVE - whose mission it is to tackle child sex abuse without
recourse to the criminal justice system - have also identified with
Transformative Justice and have developed their own understanding of
it, discussed in the Crimethlnc article.

In the US over the past decade, a number of radical communities and
projects have been experimenting with one transformative technique to
have emerged: accountability processes. These ideally assume the
following form: a person makes an allegation; a handful of people form
a support group for that individual; the support group convenes a
process and organises a similar support group for the 'perpetrator', who
will be asked to broach the issue with this individual; the 'perpetrator'
agrees to participate in a process; the two groups gather in a session

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run by a 'neutral' facilitator, during which both sides are given time to
discuss their feelings; the 'perpetrator' acknowledges responsibility and
an agreement is reached on steps they will take to repair the harm,
such as informing future partners about what happened, or attending
counselling; the 'perpetrator' abides by the agreement and is regularly
checked in on by their support group, as is the 'survivor'.

As this very brief overview might indicate, there can be a lot of problems
associated with such processes - from the language used, to the
assumption that the allegations are always true. These processes have
unsurprisingly caused considerable conflict in many quarters, but could
bear beautiful fruit if executed well.

This has been just a brief introduction; more about TJ and
accountability processes will become clear throughout the rest of this
zine. Specifically, a detailed model of such a process can be found in
the following article.

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leautifuli, Difficult,
Powerful! : ending sexual assault through
transformative justice

The Chrysalis Collective

The Chrysalis Collective formed when a friend and member of our
community experienced acquaintance rape by another local activist.
“Diane” was a woman of color involved in several local organizing
projects. Through her activism, she befriended “Tom”, a white male
grassroots organizer working full time in primarily poor, people of color
communities. As their friendship grew, Tom expressed his romantic
interest. Diane made it clear to Tom that she was both unavailable and
uninterested. A few months later, Diane felt that Tom betrayed their
close friendship by manipulating her into sexual situations that she did
not want. Their friendship abruptly ended. After several months of
confusion and anxiety, Diane painfully realized that she had
experienced acquaintance rape.

Aware that the state and its prisons are the biggest perpetrators of
violence against our communities, Diane looked elsewhere for
solutions. As infuriated and upset as she was with Tom, Diane knew
that putting him in jail would not bring about the healing, justice, and
peace that she wanted for herself, Tom, and the community. She
gathered her close friends and formed the Chrysalis Collective. We
were a group of womyn and trans folk of color with experience
organizing around reproductive justice, queer health, racial justice,
gender justice, youth issues, immigration rights, and food justice. At that
time, we didn't know how to build a Transformative Justice (TJ)
collective, how to make Tom accountable, what TJ models already
existed, or what our next steps might be[1]. But we did believe in TJ as
a path of individual and collective healing through accountability,
compassion, and commitment. It was a way of creating a system of

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community-based justice grounded in the humanity - not the
brokenness - of its members and in our creative capacity to transform
and heal from living in a violent and imbalanced society. Instead of
turning to the state, we drew on the strength and resources already in
our community to end sexual assault and build safer, healthier relations
among and between activists.

This is the story of our process, what we did, how and why we did it,
what worked, and what didn't. Our story won't apply to everyone, or
perhaps even to anyone, but we hope our offering to this beautiful,
difficult, and powerful movement for TJ will inspire the work folks do in
their own communities.

step 1. gathering: form a survivor support team (SST)

Our first step was to form a Survivor Support Team of folks who wanted
to turn this community accountability idea into a reality. Diane called
together a team of trusted friends and organizers. Some questions we
considered were:

- Whom does the survivor and her allies want in the SST?

What are the goals of the SST?

What are the expectations, skills, commitment levels, and
availability of the SST? What resources does the SST need to prepare
and gain confidence for the work ahead?

The first meeting was a two-day gathering that included a lot of tears
and tissues, visiting the ocean, and expressing a commitment to
support Diane and see this nascent TJ process through to the end.
During this initial meeting we also developed our initial goals for the TJ
process. We created separate goals for Diane, the SST, Tom, and our
communities, including:

Help Diane seek a healthy, healing path, join a survivors' group,
not blame herself for what happened, and keep a journal.

Have Tom agree to work with the accountability team (AT) we

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planned to organize, seek counseling, share with friends that he is in a
TJ process, and admit to the assault.

- Ensure that the SST and AT commit to a survivor-centred TJ
process, recognize Tom's humanity, create a community-based
alternative to the state, and eventually share their experiences with
community organizers and groups.

At the time, we had no idea how we were going to meet these goals
and whether it was even possible. Yet the aspirations we named when
things were new, raw, and unmapped have remained our guiding force
throughout the entire TJ process.

Since neither Diane nor our Support Team had much experience in
TJ or accountability work, our next step was to read everything we
could find on the subject. Our team spent several months learning,
brainstorming, and talking about how to approach Tom. We needed this
time to be intentional about our work, build our trust as a group, learn
enough to move forward, and give Diane the space and support she
needed to heal. There were times where we felt overwhelmed by what
we were reading, when we were uncertain about what we could do, and
when Diane had some rough nights. We built our trust by continuing to
show up for Diane, for each other, and for ourselves.

step 2. expanding: form an accountability team (AT)

Next we began the process of forming the team that would be
responsible for working with Tom to hold him accountable. Early on, the
SST had concluded that we did not want to take part in working with
Tom. We wanted to be able to focus on Diane's healing and also felt
that we would not be able to distance ourselves enough from our anger
at Tom to work compassionately with him. So we formed the AT as a
separate team of people whose task it was to hold Tom accountable.
First, we made a list of community allies who could be potential AT
members. Since the AT would be in closest contact with Tom, it was
vital to choose folks who not only believed in our definition of TJ but
could also commit the time and energy, and be willing to develop the

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skills needed, to engage with an aggressor[2], We asked ourselves the
following questions:

What experiences did they have with sexual assault,
transformative justice, or community work?

What other skills could they offer the TJ process (e.g., patience,
clarity, compassion, political vision, commitment)?

What leverage did they have in the community (e.g., positive
reputation, community elder, financial resources, connections)?

- Would it be helpful if the AT was drawn from diverse
communities across lines of race, gender, sexual orientation, class,
organizational affiliation, and age? In our case, the aggressor was a
middle-class, straight, white male with a pattern of not listening. We felt
that an AT led by working-class womyn of color would be less effective
than a predominantly white and/or male AT.

- And, finally: did they know Diane and/or Tom?

Forming an intentional community of people as the AT was key to the
process of creating safe spaces for Diane and Tom, and crucial to our
TJ work. For us, the TJ process was not about shaming or threatening
the aggressor; it was about a deep transformation based on radical
reflection, community accountability, and love.

Next, SST members contacted the folks individually on the list. Since
their vocational circles overlapped so much, Diane chose to keep her
and Tom's identities confidential. Without divulging identities, the SST
informed the potential ally that a sexual assault had occurred in the
community and that the survivor was starting a TJ process. We shared
the SST's framework for rape, sexual assault, and TJ, and made sure
that folks shared a similar analysis. Although most folks did not have
much training or experience with a TJ process, we emphasised to them
that they could still join the AT, pool their skills and learn together.

At the end of our vetting process, our AT included four incredible
activists who shared a radical political vision and a strong gender justice
framework. Three of the members were well-respected activists in the

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social justice community with decades of community work and
organizing experience, a few had previous experience of confronting
perpetrators of sexual assault, and one was involved in ongoing prison-
abolition work. The majority of the AT team was white, male, and
straight, reflecting our intentional strategy, and one of the veteran
movement activists was a person of color. All of them knew Tom and/or
Diane, and several had close working relationships with one or both of
them. The AT's deep compassion and commitment guided them
through the early months of negotiating their working and personal
relationships with Diane and Tom. As with the SST, the AT members
would progressively build on each other's strengths to create a trusting,
powerful group.

After introducing the AT members to each other, the SST gently
revealed the identities of Diane and Tom. As some AT members knew
Diane and/or Tom, this required some time to process, especially since
there was an awkward period of time when the AT knew about Tom's
identity before being ready or prepared to confront him.

Around this time, the SST and Diane compiled a list of “talking points”.
These talking points included information that the AT could (and could
not) share with Tom, i.e., a very brief summary of the assault from
Diane's perspective: that the assault occurred by manipulation, not
physical force, and other details. Crucially, Diane reported that this
phase was extremely stressful. Sharing her story with the AT was a
huge, public, and sometimes terrifying step. She felt a lot of fear, self¬
doubt, and anger, so the SST took extra care in supporting her process.
They sat with her, listened to her worries, affirmed her commitment to
healing, and reminded her that she was not alone in this difficult, but
good and important, journey.

step 3. communicating: defining the relationship between teams

For each group, we outlined clear expectations and roles. However, we
kept open the possibility of shifting them as needed.

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THE SURVIVOR SUPPORT TEAM:

Focused on Diane's needs and desires throughout the TJ
process.

Educated themselves about TJ by checking out resources in
books/zines, on the web, and in our communities.

Supported Diane's healing process as an individual and within
the TJ process.

Initiated, monitored, and evaluated Tom's accountability
process through the AT.

- Communicated between the AT and survivor, making sure that
the AT knew Diane's needs and gave Diane updates of the AT's
process while respecting how much/little she should know with respect
to her healing process.

THE ACCOUNTABILITY TEAM:

- Committed to a survivor-centred praxis at all times in their work
with Tom.

Educated themselves about TJ with an eye toward supporting
Tom's transformation with compassion. (Our AT also had to balance
taking the time to be fully prepared with the urgency of transforming
Tom's behavior).

- Worked directly with Tom to achieve accountability and
transformation. (As a group, they had to gain Tom's trust and commit to
honoring his humanity. For example, they consistently reiterated their
commitment to TJ, rather than to legal or retaliatory justice.)

Conveyed and translated ideas and suggestions from the SST
to Tom. For example, the AT developed specific exercises and
discussion tactics to convey the concerns of Diane and the SST team to
Tom.

The SST and AT had two fundamentally different roles, lenses, and
responsibilities; yet they were connected by their shared commitment to
TJ principles and by a similar analysis of the various forms of sexual
violence and oppression. Building a solid foundation between the SST

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and AT laid the groundwork for what was to come. Regularly scheduled
communication between the teams addressed Diane's process, Tom's
transformation, logistics, coordination, questions, and any other issues.
Our understanding of TJ required that each perspective be balanced:
the AT needed to hear from the SST to continually see their work with
the aggressor from the survivor's perspective, and the SST needed to
hear from the AT to monitor Tom's progress and be reminded of Tom's
humanity despite the harm he committed. When the groups were
working and communicating well, they formed a continuum from Diane
to the SST to the AT to Tom, allowing for direct lines of communication
as well as the distance necessary for Diane's healing, safety, and
confidentiality.

step 4. storming & developing: create a transformative justice (TJ)
plan

We found that it was crucial that the SST and AT develop a TJ plan
before they approach Tom. The purpose of the plan was to outline our
steps toward TJ if and when Tom agreed to work with the AT. We
created a document where we outlined potential “steps” and then
brainstormed ways of pushing Tom to accomplish the best-case
outcome, ways of protecting ourselves from the worst-case scenario,
and some of the possibilities in between. Our TJ plan included:

Our goals.

Ideas for how to first approach Tom.

- Warning signs of covert aggression from Tom.

Backlash precautions (i.e., maintaining Diane's safety and using
our leverage were Tom to respond by counter-organizing or trying to
contact Diane).

Establishing guidelines for meetings with Tom (e.g., building
trust between Tom and the AT, and offering resources, “homework”,
and goals for each meeting).

- Working with Tom's accountability process, which involved
overcoming denial and minimization, improving survivor empathy,
changing distorted attitudes about power/privilege/gender, learning

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good consent and intimacy practices, and cocreating a relapse
prevention plan.

The actual TJ process proceeded differently than what we had
imagined in our brainstorm. Some ideas were never used, and others
had to be developed along the way. Even though not everything was
used, it was really helpful for the SST and AT to have thought through
these issues together and anticipated possible reactions and outcomes.
Our plan was imperfect, incomplete, and did change, but it was much
better than having no plan at all. We drew on the good resources we
already had - and embodied - to make the plan as strong as possible.

step 5. summoning: prepare for the first approach

Our AT and SST spent several months mentally and emotionally
preparing for the initial approach and first meeting with Tom. The SST
and AT lined up, vetted, and interviewed local resources, such as
therapists, men's groups and other TJ resources. We found that local
community resources for aggressors in relation to sexual assault and TJ
were weak, so we explored regional and national support networks as
well. We also asked:

- Where and when would the first approach occur?

- Which members of the AT would approach Tom? How would
they invite Tom to the first meeting? When, when and how would they
tell Tom that a survivor was seeking his accountability for rape?

- How would the AT communicate with the AT about the first
approach?

We wanted an approach that would model concern (rather than
punishment), confidentiality, and community safety while still giving us
enough leverage to compel Tom to participate in the TJ process. In our
discussions, it was helpful for us to distinguish our tactics for the “initial
approach” when we would ask him to come to a meeting about a
community concern, and the “first meeting” where we would tell him that
the community concern was his behavior and Diane's experience of

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rape. It was agreed that two folks whom Tom respects would do the
initial approach and keep the exchange brief and general to avoid
tipping him off as to what the meeting would be about.

We felt that this plan would maximize our chances of getting him to
the table to listen to our concerns, be willing to participate in the TJ
process, and minimize any reaction that could endanger Diane. The
success of the “initial approach”would rely on the fact that Tom cared
about the community and would want to be part of the solution to a
community problem; the success of the “initial meeting” would rely on
the fact that these concerns would be brought to him by people he
trusted and respected, and that it would be done in a way that was not
about shaming or punishing him.

Preparing for this step was important because Tom's reaction could
not be predicted, and how the AT responded could influence Tom's
participation in the TJ process. What if Tom refused to engage with the
AT, leaving everyone unhealed and the community endangered? What
if Tom freaked out when his behavior was named as rape? What if
everything went as planned? We simplified our preparation for the first
approach by assuming a best-case scenario, but we also developed a
list of tactics to influence and raise the stakes for Tom in case he
resisted (e.g., going to his friends and colleagues).

The AT chose two members whom Tom respects and who have
worked directly with him. After a community event they all attended, the
two members casually approached him and said, “Hello, we would like
you to join us for a meeting about an important matter concerning a
member of our community.” They diverted Tom's questions about the
community member's identity by saying, “There are issues of
confidentiality. We'll talk about that at the meeting.” Neither the assault
nor the TJ process were mentioned. For the first approach, we felt the
less said, the more likely Tom would participate in the first meeting
(where the details would come out and the real work would begin). We
were wary of sharing any more information about the assault or TJ
process with Tom for fear it would scare him away, trigger aggressive
reactions, or turn him off. Our primary goal was to invite Tom to a first

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meeting, and fortunately, he agreed to attend.

Immediately after the initial approach, the two members processed
the experience with the rest of the AT and SST, as everyone was
anxious to know how it went.

In hindsight, we've realized that this approach had the extra benefit of
activating within Tom the mental frames he and we needed for this
process: responsibility, caring, trust (we were going to trust him with a
community concern), at the possible cost of him feeling betrayed by our
half-truth. In contrast, an “authoritative” approach would likely activate
an offense/defense response in Tom so he could regain “his way - the
opposite of what was needed in the process. (And truthfully, we just felt
uncomfortable acting in an “authoritative”, top-down manner, rather than
modeling horizontal cooperation).

Although this first invitation to the process seemed simple enough, it
was an extremely stressful time for Diane, the SST, and the AT. We
supported Diane and each other through our feelings of doubt and
anxiety about whether the first approach and meetings would be
effective. Unfortunately, we were not prepared for the growing internal
stress in the groups. Our SST and AT lost some folks due to the
increased intensity of the process and the time commitment. This was a
time when folks already saw and felt how the TJ process would roll out.

step 6. building: the first meeting

The AT planned the first meeting with an eye towards Tom's potential
responses. This would be the first time Tom would hear that Diane had
experienced rape, that she had been deeply harmed by his behaviors,
and that we would be asking him to engage in a long, complex process
of TJ. We considered the following range of feelings that Tom might
experience and/or express:

Ganged up on. To minimize the chances of this happening, we
limited the first meeting to the two AT members we had selected -
community leaders and elders who modeled cooperation, not
domination - to make the initial approach because among us they were
the most trusted and respect by Tom.

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Denial, outrage, remorse, shame, guilt, fear, and
defensiveness. With these feelings in mind, we didn't expect much at
first. We set and kept good boundaries, and used active listening.

Betrayal by the survivor and AT. We tried to build trust and
safety right away by compassionately (but critically) listening to his
experience, giving him space to feel betrayal and denial, and allowing
him to offer some input on his TJ process.

- Overwhelmed by too much information. To avoid this we kept
things simple at first.

At the first meeting, the two AT members gently told Tom that a
community member experienced his behavior as rape. They revealed
Diane's identity and shared a few of the SST's talking points. The AT
folks explained that Diane and the community had experienced a harm
which must be healed in a responsible way. These points were
communicated both verbally and in a written document for Tom to
reread and process later. Some of those points were:

- The AT was there to serve the needs of Diane and the
community.

The AT would support Tom in his accountability and
transformation process.

- The AT would provide Tom with a simplified statement or
version of Diane's experience, rather than a detailed account that could
lead to a debate over what happened.

- The AT acknowledged that Tom's intention and experience
might be different than Diane's.

The AT set clear boundaries around the survivor (i.e., do not
contact Diane).

- The AT valued Tom’s contributions to the community.

The AT and Tom had a mutual interest in stopping sexual

assault in the activist community.

- The AT invited Tom to bring his needs and goals to the next
meeting.

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The AT members were also prepared to:

Validate Tom's story, feelings, and experience, if offered; repeat
our support of the survivor's experience if Tom tried to blame Diane for
what happened.

Deflect questions or challenges about the incident, violation,
process, or Diane until the next meeting.

- Avoid volunteering any additional information “to be helpful”.

- Ask if Tom had friends to process with afterwards.

- Establish that Tom should communicate with the AT through a
predesignated point person.

After this meeting, the AT members debriefed, updated the SST,
supported each other, and relaxed as best they could. Their work had
just begun.

step 7. transforming: meetings with the accountability team

Fortunately, the initial approach and first meeting led to regular
meetings between Tom and the entire AT. During each meeting, the AT
allowed generous time for check-ins and emotional processing. As
expected, our personal feelings, such as anger and judgement, arose,
so we consistently reemphasized the entire team's commitment to TJ -
not to punishment - and to building a climate of trust and respect.

In the initial meetings, the AT gave an overview of the process that we
expected going forward. We solicited boundaries from everyone and
developed shared goals, ensuring a place for Tom's voice in the
process. We also learned not to expect much from him during the initial
meetings. The work ahead was likely to be long, and we figured it was
most important that each meeting lead to the next one.

As we've continued, the AT has played many expected and
unexpected roles, such as supporter, friend, challenger, therapist,
investigator, contract negotiator, and judge. Always, the AT and SST
have worked together to make sure that the survivor-centred TJ
process be guided by the goals of the TJ plan. The AT also focused on
the shared goals produced with Tom. They respected Tom's needs

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while prioritizing the safety of Diane and of the community.

MEETINGS WITH TOM HAVE FOCUSED ON THE FOLLOWING:

Challenging rape culture: Pacing the information slowly, starting
with sexual-assault definitions and statistics; studying and discussing
relevant zines and resources; repeating our understanding of rape and
how it differs from the criminal definition and mainstream myths;
exploring the difference between intent and impact; and challenging the
primacy that rape culture gives to an aggressor's intent over the
consequences of the aggressor's behavior for the survivor and the
community.

- Exploring unrelated scenarios: Describing situations involving
culpability, intent, manipulation, and then connecting them to the
incident; asking what taking responsibility would look like even if Tom
were blameless.

- Focusing on the survivor's experience: Asking Tom how
something looks and feels from Diane's perspective; asking “What did
you take from that statement?”; asking who got what they wanted;
restating the survivor's experience; pressing for feelings and empathy;
understanding the meaning and practice of good consent.

- Connecting with Tom: Connecting to his activism and using
various anti-oppression frameworks that would be familiar to him;
involving Tom in problem solving; pushing Tom to places of discomfort;
asking Tom to imagine he is on an AT for someone else; assigning and
discussing homework; practicing active listening and mirroring.

We also expected Tom to manipulate conversations to avoid accepting
the painful reality that he had deeply harmed Diane and, by extension,
the community.

AT members attempted to avoid this by:

Practicing role-plays about defensive behaviors.

Developing mantras for tough situations (i.e., “Diane
experienced that as harm”).

- Debriefing together after every meeting with Tom, with a

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particular focus on detecting manipulation.

- Debriefing with the SST after every meeting or two to check in
with the TJ process.

- Trusting the experiences and wisdom of the group members.

Throughout this process, one difficult and recurring question was
whether the AT and Tom had met their goals. The AT had clear goals
for Tom, i.e., that he admit to rape and seek professional counseling. At
the same time, we had been frustrated by how to measure or evaluate
these goals. The AT not only wanted Tom to change his language and
behavior; they also wanted him to internalize what he was learning and
emotionally “get it”. Observing behaviors and statements were one way
to measure change, but we realized that there was no guarantee that
he was really “getting” it. Given the difficulty in measuring our success,
it has been crucial to set clear goals for Tom from the beginning of this
long process of transformation.

GOALS FOR TOM:

LEARN about sexual assault, consent, privilege, patriarchy,
gender socialization, and rape culture.

- RESPECT physical and communication boundaries for Diane's
safety.

- EXAMINE his past behavior for other experiences of
manipulation and assault; acknowledge and be accountable to that
history; and keep the community safe in the present and future if this is
repeat behavior.

SEEK professional counseling for aggressors or join an
aggressor recovery group.

- SELF-EDUCATE to deeply understand the incident, his intent,
and behavior, and the subsequent harm to Diane and the community.

- DISCUSS AND MODEL consent behavior for future
relationships.

- COMMIT to acts of restitution to Diane and the community.

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step 8. evaluating: lessons learned

As much as we prepared, there have been important lessons that we
did not anticipate in our TJ work:

The situation - and many rapes in activist communities -
involved coercion, manipulation, and/or entitlement, not sheer physical
force, and reflected how deeply rape myths and culture are embedded
within our own activist circles. Male entitlement, racism, and an
ignorance of rape culture made it that much harder for Tom to
recognize his behavior as rape.

It was hard to balance Diane's need for confidentiality with the
need to warn the community about Tom, and this remained an
unresolved tension in our TJ process.

- Diane's and Tom's transformations needed to follow their own
paths, which might mean that Tom might be ready to offer restitution
before or after Diane is ready to receive it.

- We should have been more serious about communication
between the AT and the SST. It sounded easy enough, but it
sometimes felt overwhelming to schedule another meeting or call. No
matter what the excuse, we have learned to make time to check in. It is
worth much more than we first realized.

The aggressor accountability process got so involved that the
SST started to lose track of Diane's healing process. At one point, our
meetings were all about Tom's progress, and we would run out of time
before addressing what Diane needed. We are learning to put Diane's
well-being back at the center of our process through things like
expanding our support circle, reading zines together, and making a
trigger plan. (A trigger plan is a way for Diane to identify and overcome
her triggers. When she experiences a traumatic memory or reaction, the
trigger plan that we developed together helps her identify what is
happening and the steps she needs to take to feel safe).

The Chrysalis Collective is still actively engaged in our survivor-centred
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deep commitment requiring a lot of energy and patience. Our unfinished
process has lasted almost two years so far and we have gone through
stressful times. Yet healing and transformation is clearly, slowly,
steadily happening for everyone involved. This experience has
connected each of us in unexpected and powerful ways that reaffirm
our collective commitment to transforming ourselves and our
communities.

working definitions

- RAPE. Nonconsensual sex through physical force,
manipulation, stress or fear; the experience of sex as the unwanted
physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual violation of sexual boundaries;
not as an act of caring, love or pleasure; sexual violation of trust.

- SEXUAL ASSAULT. Any unwanted physical, emotional,
mental, or spiritual violation of sexual boundaries.

- CONSENT. An understandable exchange of affirmative words
and actions regarding sexual activity; agreement, approval, or
permission that is informed and freely and actively given without
physical force, manipulation, stress, or fear.

suggested resources

generationFIVE: Ending Child Sexual Abuse in Five Generations
www.aenerationfive.org

Flollow Water: Community Holistic Healing Circle

www.iirp.edu/article detail.php?article id=NDcO
Indigenous Issues Forums

www.indiaenousissuesforums.org (dead link)

INCITE! Women of Color Against Violence
www.incite-national.org

Communities Against Rape and Abuse (CARA)
www.cara-seattle.org (dead link)

Center for Transformative Change

www.transformativechanae.org

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Angel Kyodo Williams, “Doing Darkness: Change Vs. Transformation,”
Transformation: Vision and Practice for Transformative Social Change
(October 2009).

www.transformativechanae.org/docs/nl/transform-200910.html

notes

1. After a lot of phonecalls, web searches, conversations, and
networking with amazing activists around the country, we found
incredible resources. We are grateful for the wisdom and work shared
by the TJ activists who came before us, especially the folks from
GenerationFIVE, Flollow Water, Indigenous Issues Forum, INCITE!
Women of Color Against Violence, Communities Against Rape and
Abuse (CARA), and the zine “The Revolution Starts at Flome:
confronting partner abuse in activist communities,” eds. Ching-ln Chen,
Jai Dulani, and Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha (2008).

2. The Chrysalis Collective deliberately uses the term “aggressor”
throughout the chapter for reasons similar to those offered by a
collective of women of color from CARA: “[W]e use the word 'aggressor'
to refer to a person who has committed an act of sexual violence (rape,
sexual harassment, coercion etc.) against another person. Our use of
the word 'aggressor' is not an attempt to weaken the severity of rape. In
our work of defining accountability outside of the criminal system, we try
not to use criminal-based vocabulary such as 'perpetrator', 'rapist', or
'sex predator'”. See CARA, “Taking Risks: Implementing Grassroots
Accountability Strategies,” in Color of Violence: The INCITE! Anthology,
ed. INCITE! Women of Color Against Violence (Cambridge, MA: South
End Press, 2006), 302nl.

[Extract from Ching-ln Chen et al. The Revolution Starts at Home:
confronting intimate violence within activist communities ]

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A gs o un tIn g for Ourselves
Breaking the Impasse Around Assault and Abuse in
Anarchist Scenes

by Crimethlnc.

Sexual assault and abuse continue to plague anarchist circles and
spaces. In response, we’ve developed processes to hold each other
accountable outside of the state. But why can’t we seem to get them
right? This essay examines the context in which these community
accountability models emerged and analyzes the pitfalls we’ve
encountered in trying to apply them. To move beyond the impasse
around sexual violence within our scenes, we need to challenge the
idea of community itself and take our resistance in new directions.

Intf'odust ton

"I dont believe in accountability
anymore...my anger and hopelessness about
the current model are proportional to how
invested I've been in the past.
Accountability feels like a bitter ex¬
lover to me...the past ten years I really

tried to make the relationship work, but

you know what?"

-Angustia Celeste,
“Safety is an Illusion: Reflections on Accountability”

Getting Started: Origins and Purpose

Sexual assault and abuse tear us apart. They fracture our communities,
ruin individual lives, sabotage projects and organizing, reveal nasty
contradictions between our supposed ideals and our actual practices,
and maintain a climate of fear and oppression, especially for women.

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Sexual assault is political; it is a function of patriarchy, not just an
individual harm done by individual people (usually men) to others (most
often women). Sexual assault and abuse, partner violence, child abuse,
and sexual harassment are primary ways that men physically impose
domination over women. Sexualized violence helps to maintain
patriarchy, heterosexism, trans oppression, ageism and oppression of
youth, racist colonialism, and genocide. The struggle against sexual
assault and abuse is essential for revolutionary transformation.

The accountability process model has been one of the primary tools
used by anarchists to address assault and abuse in recent years. This
essay analyzes this model in hopes of provoking honest, self-critical
discussion about how we respond to assault and abuse within anarchist
scenes, and imagining directions to move forward.

This article is NOT intended to serve as an accessible introduction to
community accountability processes; it assumes that you have some
knowledge of what they are and how they work (or don’t work). It draws
specifically on North American anarchist, punk, and radical activist
subcultures and presumes that the reader understands their context
and language. If you don’t, try reading some of the sources cited below
[editor: at the end of zine] before this one. If you’re an anarchist and
you’ve had some experience with efforts to respond to assault and
abuse within your scene under the label of “accountability,” this is
intended for you.

Gender Frameworks

Gender is complicated; some folks we might perceive as male or female
don’t identify that way, and some don’t identify as either. In referring to
“men” or “women,” we mean folks who identify that way, whether
cisgender or transgender. Throughout this essay, both survivors and
people who’ve assaulted or abused others are referred to in general
using “they” as a gender-neutral pronoun. Assault and abuse can be

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committed by anyone against anyone, across gender lines; sometimes
cis women, trans men and women, and genderqueer folk assault, and
often cis men are survivors as well. But this acknowledgment should not
erase the fact that the vast majority of folks who abuse and assault are
cis men, and the majority of folks they abuse and assault are women.

Sexual assault and abuse are neither gender-specific (i.e., they can
only happen by or to people of a certain gender) nor gender-neutral
(i.e., the gender of a person who assaults or is assaulted is irrelevant to
the conversation). We must understand the gendered patterns of
assault and abuse as an expression of patriarchal domination, without
making invisible experiences that fall outside of that gendered
framework.

Restorative and Transformative Justice

In speaking about accountability processes, we’re referring to collective
efforts to address harm—in this case, sexual assault and abuse—that
focus not on punishment or legal “justice” but on keeping people safe
and challenging the underlying social patterns and power structures that
support abusive behavior. In the loosest sense, this might simply mean
a few friends sticking up for someone who’s been hurt: asking them
what they need, and trying to negotiate for those needs with the person
who hurt them and among the community they share. Some processes
involve a group that mediates between an individual and the person
calling them out, or separate groups supporting each person and
facilitating communication between them. These processes usually
involve setting out conditions or “demands” for the person who’s been
called out as a means of restoring safety or trust and preventing the
harm from happening again, and some method for following up to
ensure that these demands are met. All of these different approaches
share an intention to address the harm done directly without relying on
the state.

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Community accountability appeals to anarchists as a critical alternative
to the adversarial framework of the criminal “justice” system. According
to this framework, two parties in conflict are assumed to have opposite
interests; the state considers itself the aggrieved party and thus acts as
mediator; and “justice” means deciding which person is correct and
which person suffers consequences—which are determined by the
state, and usually unrelated to the actual harm done or its root causes.
In contrast, restorative justice focuses on the needs of the ones harmed
and those who did harm, rather than the need to satisfy the abstract
principles of law or to exact punishment. Folks who’ve been harmed
play an active role in resolving a dispute, while those who harm are
encouraged to take responsibility for their actions and repair the harm
they’ve done. It is based on a theory of justice that sees “crime” and
wrongdoing as an offense against individuals or communities rather
than the state. Many of the current working models for restorative
justice originated in Maori and North American indigenous communities.

Building on that framework, the transformative justice model links
restorative justice’s focus on rectifying harm rather than strengthening
state power with a critique of systematic oppression. According to
Generation Five, an organization that grounds their work to end child
sexual abuse in this model, the goals of transformative justice are:

• Safety, healing, and agency for survivors

• Accountability and transformation for people who harm

• Community action, healing, and accountability

• Transformation of the social conditions that perpetuate
violence—systems of oppression and exploitation,
domination, and state violence

The anarchist practice of community accountability rests in theory on
these underlying principles, along with the DIY ethic and a focus on
direct action.

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Where We're At

Anarchist Community Accountability: Recent History and the
Current State of Things

How did this set of practices around responding to sexual assault and
abuse emerge? In the 1990s and early 2000s, women and other
survivors responded to assault and abuse in a variety of ways, including
making zines calling people out to distribute at shows, discussing their
experiences amongst themselves, warning people in other communities
about repeat assaulters, and in some cases physically confronting
them. The Hysteria Collective based in the Portland, OR. area
represented one of the early structural attempts to respond to sexual
assault, producing and distributing literature, challenging the presence
of abusive men in the punk scene, and organizing a conference. In
other towns, folks formed girl gangs for self-defense and concerted
confrontational action. However, more often than not, such efforts were
isolated, belief in rape myths persisted amongst anarchists (especially
men), and survivors who attempted to speak out were ignored,
shunned, dismissed for distracting attention from more important
issues, or blamed for COINTELPRO-style divisiveness.

In response, anarchist women and others worked to encourage
anarchist scenes to take sexual assault and abuse seriously and
promote a culture of consent. Much of this spread through zine culture,
particularly Cindy Crabb’s Doris and Support zines; also, workshops
began appearing at radical conferences discussing survivor support,
consent, and positive sexuality. Men’s groups began to organize
against sexual violence in some radical scenes, such as the Dealing
With Our Shit (DWOS) collective founded in Minneapolis in 2002. A
major turning point occurred at the 2004 Pointless Fest in Philadelphia,
where concert organizers publicly announced that three women had
been raped at the event and established collectives to support the
survivors and figure out how to deal with the rapists. These collectives

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became Philly’s Pissed and Philly Stands Up, long-standing separate
but collaborating collectives devoted respectively to survivor support
and assaulter intervention.

Assault, accountability, and consent became topics at nearly all
anarchist conferences and gatherings. Many distros began to carry
zines on the subject, touring bands spoke from stage about it, and
anarchists in many other cities formed support and accountability
collectives. Organizers of mass mobilizations began to develop plans
for response, culminating in a full-scale sexual assault response
infrastructure at the anti-G20 convergence in Pittsburgh in 2009.

So how do things stand today? Terms such as “consent,” being “called
out,” “accountability process,” and “perpetrator” are in wide use, to the
point of becoming the subject of jokes. A great many people have been
called out for abusive behavior, and dozens of accountability processes
are ongoing in various stages. An identity politics around the labels
“survivor” and “perpetrator” has emerged, with scenes polarizing around
them. In spite of efforts to caution against this and encourage all
participants in accountability processes to remain self-critical, these
labels have sometimes been used to leverage power, dispense or deny
legitimacy, and erase differences in experience.

Philly Stands Up continues their work, getting paid by colleges to lead
trainings on their model and functioning as a sort of semi-formal sexual
assaulter surveillance organization, with folks from around the country
contacting them for updates on different ongoing processes. They
networked with other groups doing transformative justice work at the US
Social Forum in Detroit and hosted a three-day training for community
accountability organizers in January 2011. Numerous other similar
collectives have been attempted among anarchists in other cities,
though few have had the longevity or prominence of PSU. As more and
more intra-scene communication moves onto the internet, a number of
websites (most prominently anarchistnews.org) have become major

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hubs for shit-talking around the politics of assault and accountability.
Websites have also appeared giving information about specific
individuals who have assaulted or abused others.

Most anarchist gatherings now issue guidelines about consent and
sexual assault response, and often address the presence of people
involved in accountability processes. Based on the policies developed
by sexual assault response organizers at the 2009 Pittsburgh anti-G20
mobilization, organizers at the 2010 anti-IMF mobilizations in
Washington DC posted an announcement stating “No Perpetrators
Welcome.” It explained that in an effort to make the demos safe for
survivors, “people who have perpetrated in the past, people running
away from accountability processes, and people who refuse to respect
the IMF Resistance Network consent guidelines” were prohibited from
all organizing spaces and events. More recently, organizers for the
2012 Toronto Anarchist Book Fair echoed this language banning all
perpetrators, but added:

We understand and respect that communities have engaged in their own
processes around these incidents. If you have gone through an
accountability process and the survivor, joined by the community, feels you
have sufficiently dealt with your shit, this statement does not include you.

Likewise, the organizers of the 2012 New York Anarchist Book Fair
banned:

People who have perpetrated inter-personal violence, assault and/or
harassment unless they are actively engaged in an accountability process
and currently in compliance with all the terms and/or demands of that
process (according to the facilitators, the survivor, and/or whomever’s been
designated to monitor the agreements emerging from the process).

A major source of controversy has been the pre-emptive banning of
individuals who’ve been called out for sexual assault or abuse from
anarchist gatherings. In recent years, survivors and their supporters
have increasingly requested for particular individuals who have sexually

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assaulted others to be banned from upcoming events. Organizers have
struggled to prioritize believing survivors without pre-emptively
condemning people, and to balance transparency against privacy and
avoiding retraumatization. An internet brouhaha emerged when a
person online posted an email they had received from organizers of the
New York Anarchist Book Fair, asking them not to attend without
specifying the reason. Some interpreted the email as a Kafkaesque,
authoritarian presumption of guilt through anonymous rumor, while
others defended it as an effort to remain neutral while attempting to
secure a sense of safety for other attendees.

While controversies persist around our methods of response to sexual
assault, norms around sexuality have shifted significantly within
anarchist scenes in recent years. Discourses of consent have
expanded, while information about assault, survivor support, and
options for accountability has become increasingly available. This has
noticeably changed how we conduct sexual relationships, relate to our
own bodies, and respond to survivors. Compared to previous years,
many anarchists have become more conscious of sexual power
dynamics and increasingly empowered to communicate boundaries and
desires.

Flowever, sometimes abusers in anarchist communities “talk the talk” of
consent and support while doing the same old shit. As the author of “Is
the Anarchist Man Our Comrade?” challenges:

Accountability processes often do a lot of good but sometimes they just
teach men how to appear unabusive when nothing’s changed but the
words coming out of their mouth. Survivors and friends are left wondering if
said male is no longer a threat. Eventually the issue recedes from peoples’
minds because they don’t want to seem overly reactionary and don’t know
what further steps to even take and the perpetrator is able to continue on in
their life without much changing.

Flow can we prevent these discourses from being appropriated by the

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sensitive anarcha-feminist sexual assaulter? It seems that the
availability of community accountability processes hasn’t changed the
patterns of behavior they were developed to address. What isn’t
working here?

Ten Pitfalls of Community Accountability Processes

Two important qualifications: first, these are pitfalls of accountability
processes as they’re actually practiced, as we’ve experienced them.
Some of these pitfalls aren’t inherent to these processes, but are simply
mistakes commonly made by people who undertake them. One might
respond to many of these critiques by saying, “Well, if people actually
applied the model as it’s intended, that wouldn’t happen.”

Fair enough; but for any such model to be widely relevant and
applicable, it has to be robust enough to be able to succeed even when
conditions aren’t optimal, or when folks don’t or can’t follow the model
perfectly. So bear in mind that these pitfalls don’t imply that our
accountability models are futile or doomed. On the contrary, because
we’re invested in figuring out how to end assault and abuse, we have to
be unflinchingly critical in examining efforts to do so.

Second, the things people frequently say to avoid responsibility should
not be mistaken for problems with accountability processes. For
example: “This stuff distracts us from the real revolutionary issues; it’s
divisive and hurts the movement; holding people accountable is
manipulative/coercive/overemphasized/a power grab,” and so forth.
These are not pitfalls of accountability processes; these are problems of
patriarchy and its supposedly anarchist apologists.

That said, here are some of the major difficulties we’ve encountered in
the processes we’ve developed to hold each other accountable for
sexual assault and abuse within anarchist scenes.

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1) There is no clear sense of when it’s over, or what constitutes
success or failure. When can we say definitively that a certain person
has “worked on their shit”? What will allow a survivor and their
supporters to feel comfortable with someone continuing to participate in
a shared community? When expectations aren’t explicit, goals aren’t
concrete, or the time-line and means of assessment aren’t clear,
confusion and frustration can follow for everyone involved.

This often happens because we have so little experience with
alternative modes of resolving conflict and addressing harm that we
don’t know what to look for. For instance, even if a person has “been
accountable,” the survivor may or may not necessarily feel better. Does
this determine the success or failure of a process? If someone has
done all the things asked of them, but others aren’t sure if the steps
taken were effective, what could confirm that real change has taken
place? It may or may not actually be possible to restore trust after harm
has been done; if not, this may not be the right type of process to
undertake.

Likewise, past what point can we agree that someone has NOT worked
on their shit, and we shouldn’t bother wasting our time on it anymore?
Some accountability processes drag on for months and years, diverting
collective energy from other more fulfilling and useful ends. One
stubborn sexist can sour an entire scene on making good faith efforts to
hold folks accountable—which goes to show how important it is to know
when to end an attempted process before it drags everyone down with
it. If we’re going to invest so much time and energy in these processes,
we need a way to assess if it’s worthwhile, and when to admit failure.
And that requires determining what failure would mean: for instance,
kicking someone out of a scene, trying other modes of response, or
admitting to a survivor that we can’t enforce their demands.

2) Standards for success are unrealistic. For instance, the common
demand that someone work on their proverbial shit is either too vague

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to be meaningful, or practically translates to a profound psychological
transformation beyond the bounds of what we can achieve. As the
article “Thinking Through Perpetrator Accountability” puts it:

Perpetrator accountability is not an easy or short process... It takes a
lifelong commitment to change behaviors that are so deeply ingrained; it
requires consistent effort and support. When talking about follow-up, we
should be making schedules for weeks, but also talking about checking in
after months and years. It takes that kind of long-lasting support to make
real transformation possible.

Let’s be frank: if we expect people to remain involved in an
accountability process for some scumbag they don’t even like for years,
and we expect this as a norm for an increasing number of processes for
different people, who may or may not be cooperative—we are not
setting a realistic standard.

That’s not to say that the article is wrong; transformation of patriarchal
and abusive behavior patterns is a lifelong process. But is it really a
surprise that we fail to sustain these difficult, unrewarding processes
stretching over such lengths of time, when few anarchists in our scene
follow through on long-term commitments to even our most fervent
passions? What can we realistically commit to doing?

3) We lack the collective ability to realize many demands. We can

say we’re committed to meeting survivor demands, but that’s just empty
rhetoric when that would require resources we don’t have. Do we know
of suitably anti-authoritarian feminist counselors and therapy programs,
and can we pay for them when the person called out can’t? Can we
enforce our wishes on someone who isn’t cooperative—and as
anarchists, should we? What consequences can we enact that actually
matter? In a transient subculture, can we realistically commit to
following up with someone for years into the future, and establishing
structures of support and accountability that will last that long?

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One phrase commonly used in survivor demands and support discourse
is “safe space,” that ever-elusive place in which survivors will be able to
feel comfortable and fully reintegrated into collective life. What does
safety mean? Is it something that we can promise? From reading the
policies of recent anarchist gatherings, it appears that the primary
method of securing safe space involves excluding people who have
harmed others. But safety means more than quarantining those who
have ruptured it for particular people, since rape culture and patriarchy
suffuse all of our lives—they’re not just the result of a few bad apples.
While exclusion can shield survivors from the stress of sharing space
with people who’ve harmed them, and help to protect folks in our
community from repeatedly abusive people, exclusion falls painfully
short of safety. In fact we may rely on banning others from spaces less
because it keeps people safe than because it’s one of the only safety-
related demands we can actually enforce.

In the essay “Safety is an Illusion,” Angustia Celeste condemns the
“false promises of safe space”:

We can’t provide survivors safe space; safe space in a general sense,
outside of close friendships, some family and the occasional affinity, just
doesn’t exist... there is no such thing as safe space under patriarchy or
capitalism in light of all the sexist, hetero-normative, racist, classist (etc.)
domination that we live under. The more we try and pretend safety can
exist at a community level, the more disappointed and betrayed our friends
and lovers will be when they experience violence and do not get
supported.

What would genuine safety for survivors and for all of us look like? Are
there other strategies in that direction that we can enact beyond
exclusion and ostracism?[1]

4) We lack skills in counseling, mediation, and conflict resolution.

Often survivor demands include finding a counselor or mediator. To be
effective, this person should be willing to work for free or on a sliding
scale; hold anti-authoritarian politics and a survivor-conscious feminist

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analysis; have the time and energy to take an active role in working with
someone over a long period of time; and be close enough to the
community to understand its norms, without being directly involved in
the situation. How many of these people are there? How many of us
even have basic active listening skills, let alone the ability to navigate
complex dynamics of consent and assault, patriarchal conditioning, anti¬
authoritarian conflict resolution, and psychological transformation? And
for those few who do fit the bill, or at least come close, how many aren’t
already swamped and overwhelmed?

Perhaps this is everyone’s fault for not collectively prioritizing these skill
sets. Fine, but what do we do right now? And how do we avoid creating
a division of labor where folks with a certain set of skills or lingo become
akin to authorities within anarchist versions of judicial processes?

5) This stuff depresses people and burns them out. It’s intense,
emotionally draining work to engage in community accountability, often
with little appreciation or compensation. It can be exhausting and
unrewarding, particularly when the processes rarely succeed in keeping
a community intact while satisfying all participants. The gravity of the
work scares people off, and understandably so.

This isn’t to say that we should try to make community accountability for
sexual assault and abuse fun and lighthearted. But we need to
acknowledge that this is a barrier to people stepping up and staying
committed for the long-term involvement we’re saying is necessary for
success. And these problems are magnified when we rely on skills and
experience that only a few people in our circles have.

6) Accountability processes suck up disproportionate time and
energy. None of us signed up for anarchy because we love
participating in exhausting, interminable processes to address the
stupid ways people hurt each other within our subcultural bubbles. We
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shows, because we want a freer world, and for a million other reasons.
When we spend so much time and energy trying to resolve internal
conflicts and convince intransigent sexists to take responsibility for
changing their behavior, we risk cutting ourselves off from the passions
that brought us together in the first place.

It’s easy to get demoralized about anarchist politics when we can’t even
stop assaulting each other, let alone smash the state and abolish
capitalism. It’s not that working to end sexual assault and patriarchy is
not revolutionary—on the contrary! But if accountability
processes-particularly frustrating and unsuccessful ones-come to
occupy too much of our collective energy, we’re not likely to stay
engaged and bring new folks into our struggles.

We can’t sweep assault and abuse under the rug and silence survivors
in the name of false unity. This previous norm perpetuated oppression
and made us less effective all around, prompting community
accountability efforts to emerge in the first place. We have to find a way
to deal with our abusive behavior that doesn’t swallow up all of our
energy and demoralize us.

7) Subcultural bonds are weak enough that people just drop out.

Bear in mind that many of the less coercive models of restorative justice
on which community accountability frameworks are based originated in
smaller-scale indigenous societies, with stronger social and cultural
affinities than most any of us in the current United States can imagine.
The notion that we should attempt to preserve the community and allow
folks who’ve hurt others to remain integrated into it relies on the
assumption that all parties are invested enough in this “community” to
endure the scrutiny and difficult feelings that accompany going through
an accountability process. The affinities that draw people into punk and
anarchist scenes often aren’t strong enough to keep people rooted
when they feel threatened by what they’re asked to do. Folks who’ve
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preemptively before they’re called to account for their shitty behavior.
Short of communicating with similar social networks in the assaulter’s
new destination (which happens increasingly often), there’s not much
we can do to prevent that. When the primary consequences we can
exact for noncompliance with accountability demands involve forms of
ostracism and exclusion, people will avoid these by skipping town or
dropping out.[2]

8) Collective norms encourage and excuse unaccountable
behavior. Our individual choices always occur in a social context, and
some of the collective norms of anarchist scenes facilitate, if not directly
justify, kinds of behavior that have often led to boundary-crossing and
calling out.

For example, in many anarchist scenes, a culture of intoxication
predominates and most social gatherings center around alcohol and
drug use. Few safeguards exist when folks drink or use to excess, and
few alternative spaces exist for those who want to stop or reduce their
drinking or using without losing their social lives. Humor and
conversation norms reinforce the notion that extreme drunkenness is
normal and funny, and that people are less responsible for their actions
while drunk then while sober. Weekend after weekend, we create highly
sexualized spaces with strong pressure to get intoxicated, resulting in
groups of people too drunk or high to give or receive solid consent.[3]
Then in the aftermath of the harm caused in those situations, we expect
individuals to deal with the consequences of their choices on their own,
rather than all of us taking responsibility for the collective context that
normalizes their behavior.

Of course, none of these dynamics excuse abuse. But sexual assault
takes place in a social context, and communities can take or avoid
responsibility for the kinds of behavior our social norms encourage.
Alcohol and drug use is just one example of a group norm that excuses
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accountability have cited as hindering their efforts include the idolization
of scene celebrities (people in popular bands, renowned activists, etc.);
the notion that sexual and romantic relationships are “private” and not
the business of anyone outside of them; and the belief that groups who
face systematic oppression (such as queers and people of color)
shouldn’t “air the dirty laundry” of intra-community violence, since it
could be used to further demonize them.

Are we willing to examine and challenge our group norms on a
collective level, to see how they promote or discourage accountable
behavior? Is it possible to hold entire scenes collectively accountable
for what we condone or excuse? Attempting to hold a whole group of
people accountable in some structured way would likely multiply all of
the problems we experience with accountability processes oriented
around a single person. Yet without acknowledging and challenging our
collective responsibility, holding individuals accountable won’t be
enough.

9) The residue of the adversarial justice system taints our
application of community accountability models. Some of the most
vitriolic backlash against accountability processes has been directed at
their pseudo-judicial nature. On the one hand, folks who’ve harmed
others rarely have experience being called to account for their behavior
except via authoritarian systems; attempts to do so often prompt
accusations of “witch-hunts,’’“authoritarianism,” and
cop/judge/lawyer/prison guard-like behavior. Previously anti-state
militants often do miraculous turnarounds, suddenly becoming
extremely interested in the US government’s guarantees of “justice”:
“Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty, man? Don’t I get a
fair trial? Can’t I defend myself? Listen to my character witnesses!”

On the other hand, folks pursuing accountability have received similar
conditioning into adversarial conflict resolution, so it can be very easy to
fall into that mode of framing the process—especially when faced with

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an infuriatingly stubborn anarcho-rapist. Some participants have used
accountability processes as a way to threaten consequences or
leverage power over others. While this may be an understandable
response to the frustration and powerlessness often felt in the aftermath
of abuse and assault, it can undermine attempts to pursue non-
adversarial solutions.

A damning critique of the failure of anarchist accountability processes to
escape the logic of the legal system comes in a communique explaining
why a group of women physically confronted a sexual assaulter:

We did what had to be done out of sheer necessity. As radicals, we know
the legal system is entrenched in bullshit—many laws and legal processes
are racist, classist, heterosexist and misogynist. Alternative accountability
processes, much like the traditional ones, often force the survivor to relive
the trauma of the assault and force her to put her reputation—a
problematic concept in itself—on the line as “proof” of her credibility. They
end up being an ineffective recreation of the judicial process that leaves
the perpetrator off the hook, while the survivor has to live through the
memory of the assault for the rest of her life. The US legal system and the
alternative community-based accountability processes are simply not good
enough for survivors, and certainly not revolutionary.

10) Sexual assault accountability language and methods are used in
situations for which they were not intended. One example of this
misapplication involves the widespread use of the principle of rape crisis
survivor support specifying that supporters should “always believe the
survivor.” This makes perfect sense in a rape crisis organization setting,
solely focused on providing emotional support and services to an individual
who’s experienced a form of trauma that is widely disbelieved, when being
believed is instrumental to the healing process. But this doesn’t make
sense as a basis for conflict resolution. In rape crisis counseling settings, or
when someone discloses to you as a trusted friend seeking support, the
focus should remain on the needs of the survivor. But transformative justice
involves taking into account the needs and thus the experiences and
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This does not mean that we have to figure out who’s telling the truth and
who’s lying; that’s the residue of the adversarial system again. Nor does
this mean that all perspectives are equally valid and no one is right or
wrong. It does mean that to encourage someone to be accountable, we
have to be willing to meet them where they’re at, which means accepting
that one person’s experience can vary significantly from that of someone
else. Being accountable requires being open to the possibility that one is
wrong, or at minimum that someone else could experience the same event
in a dramatically different, hurtful way. But having the survivor entirely
define the operating reality may not lend itself to this mode of community
accountability.

Another example of the overuse and misapplication of sexual assault
accountability discourse comes when people call others into accountability
processes for a wide range of behaviors that aren’t sexual assault. For
instance, if someone feels angry and hurt after the breakup of a non-
abusive relationship, it might be tempting to frame their grievances through
the lens of calling someone out and demanding accountability. It could take
the form of demanding that someone be banned from certain spaces,
drawing on the gravity this exerts as a common accountability process
demand. It’s understandable that folks who feel angry or hurt for any
number of reasons might want the kind of instant validation of their feelings
that can come (in some circles) from framing one’s hurt and anger as a
call-out requiring “accountability”—whether or not that process and
language makes sense for the situation.[4]

This is dangerous not only because these terms and tactics were designed
for certain types of conflicts and not others, but also because their overuse
may trivialize them and lead others to treat dismissively the very serious
situations of assault and abuse for which they were developed. It’s
encouraging that issues of sexual assault and abuse have entered so
widely into the discourses of radical communities. But we should be careful
to avoid generalizing the methods developed for responding to one specific
set of conflicts and oppressive behaviors to other situations for which they
weren’t intended.

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In some cases, folks frustrated by someone’s problematic behavior have
even felt reluctant to call the person out on it for fear of that person being
labeled a “perpetrator,” or of others presuming the hurtful but mild form of
non-consensual behavior to have been sexual assault, and thus the person
addressing it to be a “survivor.” When this overuse of sexual assault
accountability language dovetails with the identity politics around
survivor/perpetrator and policies such as the “no perps allowed” statement,
this effort to promote accountability could end up discouraging people from
speaking out against other forms of crummy behavior, for fear of someone
being permanently tarred with the “perp” brush rather than having a few
conversations, apologizing, and reading a zine.

New Difest ions and. Farther
Questions

So where do we go from here? The widespread disillusionment with
accountability processes suggests that we’ve reached an impasse.
We’re proposing four possible paths to explore—not as solutions to
these pitfalls so much as directions for experimenting to see if they can
lead to something new.

Direction 1: Survivor-Led Vigilantism

"I wanted revenge. I wanted to make him
feel as out of control, scared and
vulnerable as he had made me feel. There
is no safety really after a sexual

assault, but there can be consequences."

-Angustia Celeste, “Safety is an Illusion: Reflections on

Accountability”

Two situations in which prominent anarchist men were confronted and
attacked by groups of women in New York and Santa Cruz made waves
in anarchist circles in 2010. The debates that unfolded across our
scenes in response to the actions revealed a widespread sense of

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frustration with existing methods of addressing sexual assault in
anarchist scenes. Physical confrontation isn’t a new strategy; it was one
of the ways survivors responded to their abusers before community
accountability discourse became widespread in anarchist circles. As
accountability strategies developed, many rejected physical
confrontation because it hadn’t worked to stop rape or keep people
safe. The trend of survivor-led vigilantism accompanied by
communiques critiquing accountability process models reflects the
powerlessness and desperation felt by survivors, who are searching for
alternatives in the face of the futility of the other available options.

However, survivor-led vigilantism can be a valid response to sexual
assault regardless of the existence of alternatives. One doesn’t need to
feel powerless or sense the futility of other options to take decisive
physical action against one’s abuser. This approach offers several
advantages. For one, in stark contrast to many accountability
processes, it sets realistic goals and succeeds at them. It can feel more
empowering and fulfilling than a long, frequently triggering, overly
abstract process. Women can use confrontations to build collective
power towards other concerted anti-patriarchal action. Physical
confrontation sends an unambiguous message that sexual assault is
unacceptable. If sexual violence imprints patriarchy on the bodies of
women, taking revenge embodies female resistance. Above all, it’s
unmediated; as the author of the article “Notes on Survivor Autonomy
and Violence” wrote:

A common criticism of accountability processes of all varieties is their
tendency to mirror some sort of judicial system—structured mediation
toward rehabilitation or punishment of one kind or another. While an
outcome dictated by the survivor is certainly not akin to one dictated by the
state, the process remains a mediation. Conversely, to move away from
this judiciary is to reject mediation, a remnant of the idea that our
interactions must be somehow guided by third parties, even third parties
we choose ourselves. To that end, an attack on one’s rapist is unmediated
and direct, precisely that which any judicial system forbids; the line
between desire and action is erased.

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Of course, there are plenty of disadvantages to vigilantism, too.
Choosing to escalate the situation brings serious risks, both legally and
physically. Cops are more likely to bring charges for a group physical
assault on a man than an “alleged” sexual assault. And, as advocates
for battered women know, partner violence has a very real possibility to
turn deadly; more women are killed by their partners than by any other
type of attacker. Beyond the immediate risks, you can’t beat up a social
relationship, as they say; throttling an individual scumbag doesn’t do
much to make anyone safer or end systematic rape culture, however
satisfying it may feel to a vindicated survivor. As mentioned above, the
desire to address the roots of rape culture in responding to individual
assaults helped give rise to community accountability efforts in the first
place.

There’s also a legacy of non-survivor-accountable vigilantism, a type of
male violence that has been widely identified by survivors and anarchist
women as being more about masculine ego trips than promoting
healing and safety. A critique of this phenomenon comes from
Supporting a Survivor of Sexual Assault, a zine oriented towards male
allies of survivors, in its discussion of the principle “No More Violence”:

Is kicking a rapist’s ass going to make the rape not have happened? Will
his pain make the survivor’s go away? Does the survivor need to be trying
to chill out another out-of-control, violent man? Probably not.

Since non-trans men commit the overwhelming majority (some say over
99%) of sexual assaults, men who are supporting a survivor need to be
especially conscious of the impact of male violence. It is male violence that
causes rape, not what ends it. Your actions must be those of ending male
violence.

We cannot speak for the responses that survivors, women in particular,
may make to rape. If women, as a majority of survivors, decide to
collectively respond in a way that involves violence or asking male
supporters to participate in violence; that is something for women and
survivors to work out for themselves. For men who are supporting a
survivor, however, it is absolutely essential that you put aside your desires
tor masculine retribution and interrupt the cycle of male violence... It is not

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your responsibility, or right, to come in vigilante-style and take matters into
your own hands.

This critique influenced the decision of groups like DWOS in
Minneapolis to adopt “non-violence” as a principle. Notice, however,
that this critique intentionally does not apply to survivor-led vigilantism,
but to unaccountable non-survivor responses.

Apologists for anarchist men attacked by survivor-led groups claim that
vigilantism is authoritarian: “Accountability cannot be a one-way street
or else it becomes a synonym for punitive and policing power.” But as
the survivor communiques make clear, vigilantism is not a form of
“accountability,” at least not community accountability based on
transformative justice as it’s generally conceived within anarchist
circles; it’s an explicit rejection of it. It’s not a pseudo-judicial process; it
declines both state-based and non-state methods of conflict resolution
in favor of a direct, unmediated response to harm. Whether or not we
think it’s appropriate, it shouldn’t be mistaken for a form of
accountability gone wrong. On the contrary, it’s an intentional response
to the perceived failure of accountability methods.

So long as our practices around accountability for sexual assault and
abuse don’t successfully meet folks’ needs, vigilantism will continue,
challenging anarchist advocates of transformative justice to make their
ideals a reality. Should we be trying to develop sufficiently effective
accountability responses so that vigilantism isn’t necessary? Or should
we be developing and extending our practices of survivor-led physical
confrontation?

Direction 2: Prevention Through Gender-Based Organizing

It’s an obvious point, but worth making: instead of spending all this
energy trying to figure out how to support people who’ve been
assaulted and respond to those who assault, wouldn’t it make more
sense to focus on preventing all this assaulting in the first place? Easier

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said than done, of course. But so far, we’ve only discussed reactive,
after-the-fact responses to forms of harm that we’re assuming will
continue, even as we figure out better ways to react.

To borrow the language of the nonprofit rape crisis center world,
responding to assaults and working with assaulters through
accountability processes falls under intervention, or tertiary prevention.
Primary prevention entails preventing first-time assault and abuse
through education and by shifting social, cultural, and institutional
norms, while secondary prevention involves identifying risk factors
associated with assault and abuse and intervening to prevent them from
escalating. So we shouldn’t necessarily deem responses such as
accountability processes failures if sexual assaults continue in anarchist
communities. Instead, we should broaden the kinds of preventative
work we’re doing alongside them. What might we be doing to stop all
this from happening in the first place?

Outside of anarchist circles, prevention work around gender violence
usually centers on education: for women, around self-defense and harm
reduction; for men, around combating rape myths and taking
responsibility for ending male violence; and for all, healthy
communication and relationship skills. In anarchist circles, some women
have mobilized around sharing self-defense skills, and a great deal of
popular education (mostly led and conducted by women) has taken
place around consent, communication with partners, and positive
sexuality. As noted above, while this has noticeably shifted the sexual
discourses used by anarchists, we need more extensive engagement
with gender oppression to break entrenched patterns.

One pathway towards this deeper transformation has come through
gender-based collectives, specifically men’s groups focusing on
changing attitudes towards sexuality and consent among men.

However, with a few exceptions such as DWOS in Minneapolis, the
Philly Dudes Collective, and the Social Detox zine, there has not been

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much visible presence in recent years of anti-sexist men’s organizing
among anarchists. Previously in certain scenes, anti-sexist men’s
groups allied with autonomous women’s organizing. These formations
are currently out of fashion for a number of reasons, including anti¬
feminist backlash, a certain understanding of trans and genderqueer
politics that labels all gender-based organizing as essentialist and
problematic, and the absorption of so many committed anti-patriarchy
militants of many genders into sexual assault response and
accountability work. Could forming anti-sexist men’s groups to do
assault and abuse prevention work in tandem with autonomous
women’s organizing prove fruitful as another direction in which to
experiment?

This approach could offer several advantages. Creating structures to
share skills for dismantling patriarchy and self-transformation might
reduce problematic behaviors among participants while also providing
an infrastructure for accountability responses when folks did harm
others. Pre-existing men’s groups allow folks to take responsibility for
self-education and action against patriarchy that doesn’t have to be
contingent on a “perpetrator” label or “demands.” And folks could be
referred to groups for a wide range of behaviors that might not raise
eyebrows on their own but could be warning signs of underlying
patriarchal patterns, so that others can intervene before those patterns
manifest in more harmful ways (i.e., secondary prevention). For once,
we’d have a place to offer folks who, whether by community compulsion
or self-motivation, want to “work on their shit.”

But beyond just dealing with problematic behaviors, men’s groups
provide space for deeper relationship building, learning, political
clarification, emotionaljntimacy, even fun. This should provide incentive
for folks to get involved and stay engaged, since it’s not centered solely
on debilitatingly intense crisis-mode accountability work. The kinds of
study, reflection, and relationship-building that take place in these
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anarchist scenes, leaving us with more options, skills, and people able
to respond in crisis situations. And unlike many internally-focused
community accountability strategies, men’s groups can interact with
non-anarchist individuals and groups to spread anti-patriarchal
messages and practices while learning from other feminist organizing,
making our efforts relevant to broader social struggles against gender
violence and patriarchy.

But wait... what about this whole gender thing? Amid the current gender
politics of North American anarchist scenes, it’s common to view any
gender-specific organizing as suspect. Isn’t this just a remnant of tired
identity politics, vestiges of leftist guilt, outdated essentialism, and
suspiciously authoritarian practices? Don’t we want to destroy the
gender binary, the real root of patriarchy and gender oppression? And
doesn’t organizing based on gender (or assigned gender or whatever)
just reinforce the patriarchal and transphobic framework we’re trying to
destroy?

Certainly there are difficult questions to address in determining who
“counts” as a man, whether we base our understanding on self-
identification or social recognition or birth assignation, where different
genderqueer and trans folks fit, and figuring out who was “socialized”
how. And ending hierarchy and alienation in all their forms will require
strategies more liberating than identity politics. But let’s be realistic:
distinct patterns of oppressive behavior and power still fall pretty
predictably along gender lines. If gender-based organizing can help
dislodge those patterns, perhaps we must embrace that contradiction
and do our best to engage with it in all its messy complexity.

Beyond the question of gendered organizing in principle, there are other
possible problems with this approach. Without subscribing to the notion
that there are “good” anarchist men who’re not the sexual assaulters we
need to worry about, we can acknowledge that the folks who might
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inclined to participate. Also, participating in a formal men’s group could
be a way for sexists to gain legitimacy, diverting attention from their
crappy behavior by waving their feminist ally membership cards at
people who call them out. And if the focus on gender-based organizing
privileges men’s groups, even anti-sexist ones, over autonomous
women’s and/or trans organizing, that could stabilize rather than
challenge patriarchal power relations in a scene.

Direction 3: Not Accountability, But Conflict Resolution

Our struggles for accountability suffer because we have so few models,
methods, or skills for resolving conflicts amongst ourselves. While it’s
admirable that we’ve put so much energy into figuring out strategies for
responding to assault and abuse, there are innumerable other kinds of
conflict and problematic behaviors that we also need tools to address—
and as we’ve seen, the sexual assault-specific accountability
methodologies aren’t appropriate in dissimilar situations. What if we
prioritized building our conflict resolution and mediation skills?

Of course, there are specific issues relevant to sexual assault and
abuse, and these shouldn’t be eclipsed in a general focus on conflict
resolution. But if there’s a precedent, language, and skill set for
addressing a wide range of conflicts and harm, and being asked to
participate in a conflict resolution process becomes common and less
threatening, perhaps we’ll be able to respond less defensively when we
learn that our actions have hurt others. Rather than extending the
identity politics of survivor and perpetrator, we could create more
nuanced language that neither idealizes nor demonizes people, but
asks all of us to remain engaged in lifelong processes of self¬
transformation. This requires empathy towards folks who have done
harm, to create space for them to own up to their behaviors and heal.[5]

What are the advantages of framing sexual assault accountability
processes within a broader emphasis on conflict resolution? There

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would be no need for a definitional hierarchy or litmus test to determine
what “counts” as serious assault or abuse. By setting a precedent of
collective engagement with less intense conflict, we would gain valuable
experience to serve us in crisis situations. Framing conflict resolution as
a collective responsibility could prevent the emergence of a specialized
class of people who always facilitate these processes, and make it
easier to find supporters with sufficient distance from a situation to be
able to mediate neutrally.[6]

One cautionary point needs to be made very clearly: mediation is not
appropriate for many cases of partner abuse. The article “Thinking
Through Perpetrator Accountability” lays it out:

Mediation should not be used as a substitution for an accountability
process. Mediation is for two people having a conflict that needs to be
resolved; abuse is not mutual. Abuse is not simply about two people
needing to come to the table to work things out. Mediators may certainly be
useful for helping to facilitate some of the concrete negotiations within an
accountability process, but please do not suggest a session with a
mediator as an option instead of a long-term commitment to an
accountability process.

Counselors for domestic violence survivors learn that “couples
counseling” should not be undertaken in a clear situation of partner
abuse, because abusers will usually manipulate the process, leaving
the abusive and unequal dynamics underlying the relationship
unaddressed. This is important to bear in mind so that a shift to a
conflict resolution framework isn’t applied to situations of abusive
relationships.

What about other disadvantages? Well, there’s still the problem of
responding to existing problems by prescribing solutions that demand
skills or resources we don’t have. What can we do in the meantime,
while undertaking the long-term work of learning how to resolve our
conflicts? Survivors might feel frustrated to see assault and abuse
lumped in with less intense or politically significant conflicts, minimizing

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the harm they’ve experienced. Asking survivors to use less forceful
language when addressing perpetrators could reinforce the survivor-
blaming messages that they are overreacting, that sexual assault is not
a significant issue worth naming strongly. Also, male “experts” in conflict
resolution could hijack survivor support work and divert its feminist
focus. We must acknowledge the specific context of sexual assault and
abuse, honor the pain and rage of survivors, and account for oppressive
power while broadening the range of conflicts we can address.

Direction 4: Concentric Circles of Affinity

"There is no such thing as accountability
within radical communities because there
is no such thing as community, not when it
comes to sexual assault and abuse. Take
an honest survey sometime and you will
find that we dont agree. There is no
consensus. Community in this context is a

mythical, frequently invoked and much
misused term. I dont want to be invested

in it anymore."

-Angustia Celeste, “Safety is an Illusion: Reflections on

Accountability”

At the heart of all of these questions lies one unresolved problem: what
is “community?” Are we in one together as anarchists? As punks? As
people in a certain local scene? Because we’re at the same protest,
show, or mass mobilization? Do we choose to be in it, or are we in it
whether we like it or not, regardless of how we identify? And who
decides all of this?

You can’t have community accountability without community. The entire
transformative justice framework falls apart without some coherent
sense of what community means. But unfortunately, no one seems to
be able to answer this question for our milieu. And without an answer,

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we find ourselves banging our heads against the wall again and again,
when a slimy assaulter just skips.town or drops out of the scene after
being called out, or when someone wields enough power in a scene to
gerrymander the boundaries of community to exclude survivors and
allies. This is not an abstract question: it’s fundamental to what we do
and how power operates in our scenes.

Community becomes concrete through specific institutions, such as the
websites, gatherings, social centers, and collective houses that
comprise the North American anarchist scene. Although no one is
taking attendance (except possibly the FBI), and many of us quarrel
about who counts as a real anarchist, those of us who move through
these spaces have a sense of being a part of something. We weave
together this sense through shared practices that mark us as
teammates: dress and body modification, quirks of diet and hygiene,
conversation with specialized lingo and points of reference.

But is being a part of an anarchist “milieu” enough of a basis for the kind
of community demanded by these accountability strategies? Can we
realistically apply these models to our diffuse, fragmented, mostly
unstructured associations of misfits?

As we move through our lives navigating connections with friends,
neighbors, and comrades, we’re not just part of a single unitary
community, or even a web of multiple communities. Rather, our
relationships with others take the form of concentric circles of affinity.
From these, we can trace a tentative model to imagine how to apply
community accountability models to anarchist scenes.

One of the major flaws in our notion of anarchist community lies in its
nature as implicit and assumed, rather than explicit and articulated. We
don’t often directly state our commitments to and expectations of the
other people with whom we share various kinds of “community,” except
in specific projects or collectives; for instance, by living together,

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housemates agree to pay bills on time, wash the dishes, and respect
each other’s space. What if we extended that degree of explicit intention
to all of our relationships of affinity? Impossible: we’re supposed to sit
down with every anarchist in North America—or even just in our town—
and spell out explicit standards for how we relate and what we expect
from each other?

No, of course not... and that’s exactly the point. We can’t do that, so we
have to figure out how to collectively determine these things within the
different webs of relationships in our lives. Rather than presuming a
“community” and attempting to hold people accountable based on that
fiction, we should define our expectations of and commitments to the
others in our various circles of affinity, and use them as the basis for our
responses to conflict and harm.

For example, let’s say that as my innermost concentric circle I have my
affinity group. These are the folks I trust the most, with whom I take
risks and for whom I’ll do whatever it takes. I’d be willing to give these
people the benefit of the doubt in resolving conflict and addressing
harm far more than any other people. Under this model, I would sit
down with my affinity group and preemptively discuss how to address
conflicts with each other when they come up, ranging from the most
minor to the most serious disputes and forms of harm. Think of it as a
sort of pre-nuptial agreement for friends and comrades, covering the
bases in case things should go wrong. That way, I have a clear sense
of how to respond when one of my crew does me wrong, and a shared
basis of trust for working with them in a potentially long-term process of
transformation. While I wouldn’t extend that trust to most people, within
this group we share a deep and explicit affinity, so I’ll be open to
criticism, calling out, and transformation with the trust that my comrades
will be, too. Other examples of this innermost circle of affinity might be
families (birth or chosen), houses and land projects, various types of
collectives, or tight-knit groups of friends.

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infoshop or social center. It’s a fairly consistent group of people, some of
whom I’m closer with than others, but also an open space, so folks may
come that I don’t know. Since it’s not a totally fixed group and not every
single person can or would settle on direct agreements with one another,
there can be collective agreements around respect, consent, anti¬
oppression, use of resources, and such. These don’t have to be
authoritarian; they can be collectively determined, revised at any time by
the consent of those most affected, and no one is compelled to abide by
them; folks who can’t or won’t can choose not to participate in the space.

As a result, I would be willing to go along with trying to hold someone
accountable insofar as they wanted to continue to participate in the space.
Since what defines our “community”—the terms of our affinity with each
other—is our shared experience of participation in the space, then if one of
us ceases to participate in it, we’re no longer in community with one
another, thus shouldn’t expect to be held or hold others accountable
through it. And accordingly, if someone violates or refuses to abide by the
collective standards, there’s a procedure in place by which someone can
held accountable for their actions; and if they refuse, others can exclude
them from the space in good conscience. Other examples of this second
circle of affinity could include specific events, larger organizing projects,
and folks who hang out loosely in shared social spaces.

This framework of concentric circles of affinity helps us imagine where we
can best apply the accountability practices with which we’ve been
experimenting these past few years among anarchists. As the circles move
outwards to mass mobilizations, “anarchists,” “punks,” and our broader
radical “community,” it’s harder to imagine how we could concretely define
community and navigate accountability within it. There’s no reason to
expect anyone to be “accountable” to us based on whatever abstraction we
claim to share with them. Without a concrete basis, our “community” has
neither carrot nor stick; we can’t reward people for going along with our
demands and we can’t coerce them into doing so. So if some random
person who’s supposedly an anarchist sexually assaults someone, it might
not be realistic to approach our response to the situation in terms of
community accountability.

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So then what do we do? Call the cops, beat them up, kick them out of all
the institutions controlled by folks with whom we share affinity? And how do
we deal with the recurrent problem of people who leave one scene only to
resume abusive behavior in another? We don’t have any clear answers.

But we have to start having discussions in every circle of affinity about our
terms of engagement and how to address harm and resolve conflict, before
we’re in crisis and forced to figure it out as we go. Until we’ve done that
thoroughly in every collective, space, social group, and other anarchist
formation, we can’t realistically aspire to formal community accountability
as a strategy for dealing with our shit.

Forming affinity groups is a crucial part of anarchist organizing. It can be as
simple as pulling together a crew of friends to do an action, or as formal
and structured as you can imagine. Crucially, it preserves the basic
principle of voluntary association at the heart of anarchy, the idea that we
can do what we want with whomever we want without coercion or
bureaucracy. This simple process has formed the core of our actions at
demos and mobilizations, but perhaps we can use it to conceptualize our
entire anarchist community and milieu. If we can create stronger ties with
each other and understand our affinities more concretely, perhaps we’ll
have the basis to make community accountability something more than a
vague and contentious dream.

We hope this essay will contribute to self-reflection among anarchists about
where our affinities really are. Perhaps we can address many of the pitfalls
of our experiments with accountability processes thus far by making our
expectations of and commitments to one another as explicit as possible.

We also can consider extending survivor-led vigilantism, pursuing anti¬
sexist men’s groups and gender-based organizing to undermine rape
culture, or broadening our focus on conflict resolution and mediation.
Whatever paths we choose, anarchists must continue trying whatever we
can to break this impasse around abuse and assault in our scenes. Our
liberation depends on it.

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“I think its time to abandon these false linguistic games we play and go back to the
old model. I miss the days when it was considered reasonable to simply kick the
living shit out of people and put them on the next train out of town - at least that

exchange was clear and honest”.

- Angustia Celeste, “Safety is an Illusion: Reflections on

Accountability”

So on the one side, we have approaches based on dialogue. On the
other, we have tactics of coercion. Those really are our choices in a
nutshell. Retribution, retaliation, revenge; all involve returning some
harm to - or imposing sanctions on - the perpetrator. This is never going
to pleasant or easy, but given the long anarchist history of direct action,
it is surprising how often survivor-led responses are not considered in
the same light. Instead they are often flippantly dismissed as
'authoritarian', 'vigilante', 'reactionary', or 'emotional'.

Far from negating these acts as 'emotional', we need to acknowledge
that they are rooted in very real and legitimate desires; safety,
catharsis, healing, and empowerment of the oppressed in the midst of
deep structural inequalities. The following statements will hopefully
provide greater insight into why some people resort to these acts. The
subsequent article then seeks to address some concerns about the
'reactionary-authoritarian' perception of retributive action, and consider
the place of revenge in anarchist praxis.

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11 A nafshis t" Rap is t Gets the
1 a t : We'll! Show You Crazy
lltshes Part H (2010)

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/26/2010 - 07:10

jacob onto is a piece of shit rapist, we are tired of accountability
processes that force the survivor to relive, over and over, the trauma of
assault; that force the survivor to put their reputation on the line as
“proof” of their credibility; that end up being an ineffective recreation of
the judicial process that leaves the perpetrator scot free, while the
survivor has to live through this for the rest of their life.

at the very least, the perpetrator should feel something, some lasting
mark of his behavior, something he will remember every time he has
sex - that is, if he ever has sex again, so we decided to make sure this
is an assault that jacob never fucking forgets.

we rolled in with a baseball bat. we pulled his books off his shelves: he
admitted it, not a single one mentioned consent, we made him say it: “i
am a rapist.” we left him crying in the dark on his bed: he will never feel
safe there again.

this is a precedent, this is the beginning of a new kind of accountability
process, one that leaves the perpetrator in pain - though this is still only
a tiny fraction of the pain that he has caused, we know that jacob is not
the only guilty one. we know there are more of you out there.

we are not sorry, and we will not stop: from now on, we will respond to
sexual violence with violence.

“if you touch me, i will fucking kill you.” let the roundups begin.

(a public service announcement: we encourage you to all use consent

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from here on out. and let it be clear: consent is not the absence of a
‘no,’ but the presence of a ‘yes.’)

1. Communique

An o n

This is an unwavering political statement, a conscious effort to politicize an
event without being apologetic or defensive. This statement is written by a
collective of women who came together in the spring of 2010 based on
shared experiences and concerns surrounding patriarchy and sexual
violence within the radical scene and beyond. In our meetings and
discussions, we learned that many of the women within our network have
experienced some form of sexual violence. It is no coincidence that we
have had this experience with power. Rape is not a personal misfortune
but an experience with domination shared by many women. When more
than two people have suffered the same oppression the problem is no
longer personal but political - thus, rape is a political matter.

- New York Radical Feminists Manifesto, 1971

Violence against women contributes to a system of power, organizing
society into a complex set of relationships based on a sometimes
invisible and internalized assumption of male supremacy. Rape is not
the only form of control that male-bodied individuals can practice in
romantic, friend, or comradely relationships. Physical as well as
emotional abuse function as ways of maintaining involuntary hierarchies
and control over women, female sexuality, and reproductive systems.

The silence and secrecy that often surrounds issues of power and
domination should in no way to be taken as complicity, however, we as
women and survivors will remain silent no longer. Ideologically
speaking, male-bodied anarchists and communists align with principles
of egalitarianism and anti-authoritarianism, yet daily practices in this
regard oftentimes fall short. We have repeatedly seen a chasm between
theory and praxis in male-bodied treatment of women and other
oppressed people. We have seen over and over again, male-gendered

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behaviors reproduce the very systems of domination that we are
fighting to dismantle. We refuse to allow this to continue.

In the course of our meetings, we identified one male-bodied individual
as a repeat perpetrator of sexual violence against female-bodied
people: Jan Michael Dichter, also known as Maus. This particular
individual, whose vocabulary consisted of anti-patriarchal jargon, had
committed sexual violence before, and participated in survivor-defined
accountability processes. Since he continued to transgress boundaries,
raping and sexually assaulting women in Boston and Santa Cruz, we
decided to confront him. We met him at his home and verbally
confronted him. He refused to take responsibility and his words were
manipulative and insulting. When he refused to shut up, we shut him
up. The intent was to inflict pain, albeit it would only be a small portion
of the amount of pain his victims have felt.

We did what had to be done out of sheer necessity. As radicals, we
know the legal system is entrenched in bullshit - many laws and legal
processes are racist, classist, heterosexist and misogynist. Alternative
accountability processes, much like the traditional ones, often force the
survivor to relive the trauma of the assault and force her to put her
reputation - a problematic concept in itself - on the line as “proof ” of
her credibility. They end up being an ineffective recreation of the judicial
process that leaves the perpetrator off the hook, while the survivor has
to live through the memory of the assault for the rest of her life
(Anonymous communique from NYC, 2009). The US legal system and
the alternative community-based accountability processes are simply
not good enough for survivors, and certainly not revolutionary.

Rape is entangled in a system of patriarchy and domination. It would
serve us well to consider rape as part of class and race analysis. It is
not only a crime committed by individuals against individuals; it is
systemic and structual. It is our material interest as women that pushes
us to stand up for ourselves.

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The material consequences of patriarchy and male supremacy push all
women, regardless of how they define themselves ideologically, to fight
against our oppression. In our work as a radical community, both
female- and male-bodied, we must work to dismantle this form of
oppression and domination. We find it an incomprehensible and
unacceptable betrayal that our so-called male-bodied ‘friends’ would
perpetrate this kind of subjugation of female-bodied comrades.

Just because you can articulate feminist theory does not mean that you
are to be trusted.

We also find tacit support of male-bodied perpetrators, as well as the
hijacking of our collectively defined accountability process particularly
offensive. Attempts by some self-identified “male allies” to take control
of the action by confronting Maus themselves, pressuring women for
inclusion and calling a public meeting without our permission
undermined our practice of self-organization. Rather than
demonstrating their support these men made it clear that they were
unwilling to allow us to act on our own behalf without their involvement.
The type of action we took as a group of female-bodied comrades
aligns clearly with anti-hierarchical politics and goals of self
determination. If our male-bodied ‘comrades’ want to be considered as
comrades, we’d like to see them behave that way.

This action sets a precedent, the beginning of a new kind of
accountability process, one that leaves the perpetrator in pain and
articulates our call for the dismantling of male supremacy in radical
political communities and beyond. We know that Maus is not the only
guilty one. We know there are more of you out there...

It would take a revolution to eliminate structural violence; thus an anti¬
rape agenda must be part of any revolutionary agenda. We demand this
now.

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leyond. Revenge &

Regonsil! iat ion : demolishing
the stfaw men

(a)1e ga1

This piece sets out conclusions drawn from concerns about
transformative and retributive justice (eg. accountability processes and
acts of revenge, respectively), expressed in the previous articles and
elsewhere. It calls for a flexible, critical approach to dealing with abuses
of power & domination in our communities, so as to be as effective as
possible in fighting these hierarchies. It suggests that we need
accountable processes, that is, 'accountability processes' themselves,
and any other methods we use, wherever possible have safeguards
against their abuse, and impede the colonisation of a new morality.
Finally, it argues that we should be developing a range of tools for
dealing with these problems, both responsive and preventative in
nature. A number of specific ideas are proposed at the end of the
article.

Dealing with our Dogmas

Retributive Justice

Transformative justice's power derives in part from its fundamental
opposition to retributive justice. Retributive justice simply involves
responding to a transgression with some kind of harm, and can include
anything from capital punishment, prisons and community service;
vigilante campaigns by civilian militias (i.e. dominant social groups
working to complement to state justice); or survivor-led action designed
to injure, shame or otherwise penalise an abuser (eg. denying them
privileges or requiring them to undertake certain duties).

Despite its varied incarnations, talk of retribution frequently provokes
hostile reactions in activist circles, at least in English-speaking quarters.

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Its status as the harshest weapon of the state against its domestic
population (although it has now added restorative justice to its armoury)
has led to a rejection of all forms of retaliation, a sentiment expressed in
particular by those with liberal tendancies who are unable to envisage
the power to exact potentially violent revenge in the hands of the
oppressed, or consider this to be as oppressive as the transgression
itself. As the communiques in this zine and our own anarchist histories
show, however, there will always be groups and individuals who
respond to their oppression with action rather than dialogue.

Frequently underlying the dismissal of retribution is the assumption that
violence can never be justified - even though revenge may not
necessarily assume violent form. Survivor-led retaliation that subverts
the social order has been conflated with state-dispensed 'justice' and
vigilantism by reactionary groups seeking to preserve the status quo.
The rejection also arguably lies in the role some NGOs have played in
advocating transformative & restorative justice over direct action by
survivors. This is no doubt due in part to the unpredictable, potentially
illegal, and deeply personal manifestations of revenge, and that this
knowledge is not easily imparted through roleplays and powerpoint
slides. As such, it is less amenable to dogma. Despite their good
motivations, sadly, it is often the case that when funded organisations
take it upon themselves to deliver training on resistance, privilege,
consensus, accountability, and so on, certain principles tend to become
gospel in the absence of a strong critical analysis built into the content
of the training. Many critiques of retributive action are therefore attacks
on straw men and are riddled with uninterrogated liberal assumptions.

Conversely, as with transformative approaches, retribution has strong
subversive potential. Violent action by oppressed groups has historical
precedent for creating critical changes in their conditions. Its cathartic
and liberatory aspects were articulated powerfully by anti-imperialist
and psychoanalyst, Frantz Fanon, who saw it as a realisation and
affirmation of the collective power of the oppressed. The revenge

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attacks and assassinations carried out by 19th and early 20th century
anarchists helped keep anarchism alive in a time of severe repression,
and inspired other comrades to find courage. Women in abusive
relationships may take strength from seeing other women acting
collectively to kick a rapist out of their social centre, while some people
may be forced to reflect on their own problem behaviour when the
expression of collective displeasure and the undesirable consequences
are difficult to ignore. The unpredictability of survivor-led revenge and
the strength of feeling involved helps abusers understand the risks that
oppressive behaviour entails.

Various forms of retaliation are used today by anarchists against
rapists, batterers and perpetrators of sexual assault, perhaps most
commonly in the form of public exposure, which may involve publishing
a culprit's details on the Internet or in activist spaces, or outing them
publicly (in one case, a group of Italian feminists successfully
interrupted a university seminar attended by a perpetrator of domestic
violence and refused to leave without him). This shaming may be a
secondary consequence of actions designed to warn others about the
individual.

This is not to say that violent retaliation, or in fact any form of retaliation
is unproblematic. In particular, using the intense power of shame
(whether as a tool in itself or as a consequence of punitive action) can
perpetuate unacceptable behaviour by that person and entrench
undesirable ways of relating to one another. Do we want to have a
culture in which we're disciplined by fear of shame and rejection? Do
we want to live our lives according to norms and morality - that is,
behaviour that is driven by desire for conformity - or according to
values and ethics which we've thought through and chosen for
ourselves? Can we use tactics against our enemies which we consider
problematic for our communities, whilst rejecting those principles for
ourselves? Although we may we never be able to fully free ourselves
from fear of rejection and ostracism, does that mean we shouldn't at

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least try to challenge dominant modes of social control such as shame,
conformity and respect for hierarchy? After all, this is arguably just as
much, if not a more powerful, mainstay of the oppressive status quo
than fear of the police or the prisons.

Given the potential dangers of retaliation and punitive action, it should
ideally be reserved for serious cases where reconciliation is out of the
question. Another reason for this is the risk of 'getting it wrong',
discussed more later. A further question is, who decides whether to
take punitive action or expulsion? Ideally the project, social centre,
campaign group or whichever collective the accused is part of will
decide together with the survivor(s), taking into account the overall
picture and the accused's patterns of behaviour. This is obviously
easier said than done in some cases, as many abusers are very skilled
at concealing their behaviour in public. On the other hand, it is also
common to find individuals who repeat certain patterns of interaction
over and over with different partners, and dominant behaviour may not
confined exclusively to their intimate relationships.

Following a collective decision to act, any course of action should be
survivor-centred, i.e. once it has been agreed that a person will be
expelled, publicly exposed, or even attacked, the needs or desires of
the survivor(s), who may have serious concerns for their own safety,
should be prioritised. How and when action is carried out should be
agreed with those needs at the forefront of people's minds. Ideally we
would see a culture where the wider collective (rather than a group of
the survivor's friends) will support direct action where appropriate.
However, in cases where there is disagreement, there will always be
some who choose to take retaliatory action regardless of the wider
group's decision. The question for the collective will then be whether to
act against those individual(s), as it is important to guard against the
abuse of these processes.

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situations and with a critical analysis of power, it may be key to
establishing safety, empowering survivors, warning potential abusers,
and realising the collective strength of oppressed groups.

Transformative Justice

Transformative justice offers significant opportunities for enriching our
understanding of power and its abuse. This is particularly so around
issues of relationships and sex, where fear, conditioning and
insecurities often undermine understanding. We can seek reconciliation
through formal processes of accountability, or through other means that
promote dialogue. Where accountability processes fall down however -
and, as the previous articles indicate, they often do fall down - it
appears in part to be when they are applied uncritically and without
proper consideration of alternatives.

In particular, one of the most worrying tendencies to have emerged in
some US radical scenes is the harsh dismissal of concerns about these
processes. If disagreements are voiced by those assigned to a
'dominant' or 'privileged' group (eg. men), then this is taken as evidence
of 'providing rhetorical cover for treating survivors like enemies'
(patriarchyhaters), or 'counter-organising' (Incite!).

On the contrary, if there is one lesson we can learn from these
experiments over the past few years, it is the importance of evaluating
and adapting our response mechanisms. Without doing so, we run the
risk of entrenching a dogmatic approach to accountability processes.

Such an approach:

- can wreak considerable destruction and infighting in a
collective;

- positions transformative justice above, and in opposition to,
retributive approaches, delegitimising direct action by survivors;

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- conceals the fact that misgivings about retribution can often be
rooted in a state-centric paradigm (states use prisons, prisons
perpetuate the problem = retribution is bad);

- leads to inappropriate use of accountability processes, e.g.
against those who call the processes into question;

- creates an onus to 'always believe the survivor', regardless of
other dynamics going on (discussed more later);

- imposes considerable burdens on people's time and takes
energy away from other important work. This burden can be
particularly unreasonable in the case of single parents, those
with care duties or those juggling jobs (who might also want to
get on with radical projects!);

- propagates unquestioned liberal assumptions held by some of
TJ's NGO champions;

- conceals the distinct (in particular, US) contexts in which they
have emerged, and the tendency of US discourses to be
uncritically imported into other parts of the Anglosphere (e.g.
privilege theory, critical whiteness);

- undermines the distinction between those we actually want to
have in our lives and communities and those we don't.

This last point, articulated by Crimethlnc in the idea of 'concentric
circles of affinity', is crucial to even the least undogmatic applications of
transformative justice. For any process (of 'accountability' or other) to
satisfy our needs and minimise their impact on our collectives, it is
essential that lines are continually drawn between perpetrators we
actually want to spend time on and those we don't. Possible guidelines
for this are laid out in the next section. This is essential, because we
may well believe that no-one is beyond help, but some people may take
10 years' hard work and support to change their behaviour. The
question for us then, is really whether we want to spend many months
or years of our time and energy changing individual behaviour? Do we
have those kinds of resources? And is this the appropriate strategy for
fighting rape and gendered violence?

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As with retributive justice, 'transformative' approaches fall down in the
absence of a radical analysis of power. One way of reducing the risk is
by developing more nuanced and varied responses to oppressive
behaviour within our communities. It is to this that we now turn.

Alternative Approaches

A. Deciding on a path

As mentioned above, before a collective opts to take any course of
action, they need to decide whether or not the person accused might be
able to remain in the group. This will inform whether the approach taken
is one based mostly on dialogue or action. There can be no hard and
fast rules on this, as every group will be coming at the issue from
different angles and have different understandings of minor and severe
harm, depending on the politics of the group, its focus, the experiences
of its members and the personalities and inclinations of those involved.

However, a few factors, taken together, can be used to guide a
decision:

• Reconciliation (the accused remains in the group)

- The person making allegations desires reconciliation

- The collective feels love and/or affinity for the accused

- The harm caused is relatively minor

- The harm is caused through error of judgement

- The harm is caused through ignorance

- The accused alleges or is known to have themselves suffered relevant
hardship or abuse, recently or historically (i.e. they too are survivors)

- The accused denies the act and is believed (see below)

- The accused expresses remorse

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Expulsion

- The person making allegations wants the accused to leave

- The collective does not feel sufficient affinity with the accused

- The harm caused is severe

- There is a pattern of abuse

- The accused has not been responsive to dialogue

- The accused appears to have been aware that they were crossing
boundaries

- The accused denies the act(s) but is disbelieved (see below)

- The accused expresses no sincere remorse

We should always be starting from a position of believing the survivor
and taking steps to immediately establish their safety. Yet that does not
mean that allegations can never be called into question. One key
objective of accountability processes is that the accused acknowledges
responsibility for the harm caused, without engaging in denial or
excuses. Accountability is in fact in many cases seen as synonymous
with taking responsibility, which provides no meaningful opportunity for
self-defence against those accusations. Processes are not going to
invite participation if they are seen to be unfair, so we need to put
checks in place to guard against processes which are themselves
unaccountable and are vulnerable to misuse and abuse.

Some cases are clear cut, others much less so. A “you are either with
the survivors or you're a rape apologist” attitude is unhelpful. While this
is an understandable approach given the patriarchal society in which we
live (in the UK, 7% of reported rapes lead to conviction), it is undeniable
that some people (albeit distinct minority) do make false accusations of
various kinds against others. This might be because they have an axe
to grind, or because they suffer from particular mental health problems.
It is also true that radical circles can be a magnet for people with such
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analyses of mental health conditions. We need to allow for the
possibility that an accusation may be false, and by diving into
accountability processes that require an admission of responsibility, I
cannot see any way out for people caught up in such a scenario.

Reasons for the collective believing the accused's denial should be
based on consideration of the overall picture, including their broader
patterns of behaviour, having (where appropriate & tactfully) consulted
other/previous partners about their experience of the accused; other
dynamics in the relationship; and consideration, where appropriate, of
other, previous unacceptable behaviour by the person making
allegations (e.g. having made other allegations known to be false,
inappropriately publishing people's details on the Internet, calling the
police on comrades, etc.). These decisions will at times be very hard to
make, but will need consideration if we are to respond appropriately to
what are not always straightforward situations.

However, no-one can be expected to be an expert in this, particularly if
oppressive behaviour is a relatively rare occurence in a collective.
Advice may therefore be sought from elsewhere, as I discuss further
below.

B. Mediation

Once it has been established that a person can remain in a given
collective and that the imbalance of power is not so great as to
undermine it, mediation might then be required in cases still needing
'external' intervention. Friends, the collective, and the survivor could
recommend this. The scale of accountability processes mean that they
are vulnerable to people taking sides and the process erupting into
wider conflict in the collective/movement (especially since a lot of
groups themselves are small). To avoid escalating the conflict and
consuming the energy of a group that probably has other priorities,
mediation may be a more suitable, smaller scale, alternative. Processes

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of mediation could be used involving up to three people (a skilled and
relatively 'neutral' mediator, and a support person for each party), rather
than accountability processes which tend to create whole 'support
groups' on either side. The mediator should promote dialogue and
understanding and facilitate an agreement whereby the accused will
take steps to change their behaviour in cases where responsibilty for an
act is acknowledged (as in accountability processes). An example of
this could be attending a self-help group (below). An agreement could
also be made to check in on the progress of this further down the line.

C. Self-help groups

Following mediation, or independently of it, either party could join a self-
help group. For the accused, this may be a condition set by a collective,
or an agreement reached in mediation. The concept of self-help groups
for 'perpetrators' and 'survivors' - for want of better words - could form
part of both a preventative and a response strategy.

Oppression awareness groups

Referrals could be made by anybody (partners, friends, collectives or
the accused themselves), and participation could be for a specified time
period (e.g. six months). Others wanting to unlearn patriarchal or
otherwise hierarchical behaviour could participate as well. Sessions
could be run collectively by participants and a handful of skilled
volunteers. In an encouraging, non-judgemental environment,
participants could support each other in better understanding power,
hierarchy and the dynamics of abuse. Like other DIY education
projects, texts could be read outside group time and discussed during
sessions.

The goal would be to strengthen our communities by increasing our
understanding of power and its abuse, and in turn treat each other with
greater respect and comradeship. Individuals who participate may

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improve their behaviour, and at the same time support others in doing
so. Helping/teaching others also consolidates our own knowledge and
encourages us to be self-reflective.

Finally, along with survivor self help groups (see below), where
appropriate these groups could be consulted in cases where a
collective is considering whether to exclude an individual. The group
could make suggestions, for example, on the factors to be taken into
consideration when making such a decision, or how to go about
approaching the accused. With the help of facilitators or counsellors,
this would allow 'perpetrators' who remain in collectives to play a
positive part in challenging oppressive behaviour, as well as providing
checks on the misuse of accountability processes.

An advantage of this project is that those who want & need to work on
these issues have a space for doing so without it necessarily dragging
in people who would rather get on with other things. The self-help
format, meanwhile, is designed to empower people to make change
rather than shaming them into it. Again, this approach would only be
appropriate for those with whom we have affinity and who we would like
to remain in our communities.

'Survivor' self-help

In a similar vein, those who have suffered abusive relationships or
experiences could have an opportunity to join forces and support one
another. Again, they would not necessarily need to have undergone
mediation or any other collective process to access these groups. As
with the oppression awareness groups, they could be run by
survivors/victims with the help of skilled counsellors or other supporters.
The project could function as a space for listening, validation, rebuilding
self-esteem, learning to identify signs of abuse and manipulation,
developing the strength and skills to challenge abuse, and preparing
possible ways out of a situation where necessary. Reading 'homework'

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and self-defence training could potentially be incorporated into these
sessions.

As with the oppression awareness groups, survivor groups could also
act in an advisory capacity to collectives considering how to take an
allegation forward. In this way, both 'survivors' and 'perpetrators' can
move from being disempowered and constrained by those labels, to
having the strength and knowledge to feedback into the wider
community.

Practical problems posed by these groups are issues of capacity for
them to function on the local level required for regular communication,
and the question of whether there would be sufficient demand. At least
in relation to the oppression awareness groups, I think that the
anarchist 'community' in the UK is currently too weak for them to
operate locally. It might therefore make more sense to establish one or
two groups (e.g. North and South) or regional groups, and for meetings
to assume the form of intensive monthly gatherings bolstered by online
communication, such as a mailing list. Funds can be pooled by the
group to help towards the cost of travel. Survivor groups may have
more demand, and might therefore be able to operate in some local
areas.

Despite some logistical challenges, putting this infrastructure in place
may be a worthwhile investment as both a preventative strategy and as
a means of building the resilience and political integrity of our networks,
as well as guarding against dogmas in accountability processes.

D. Internal resolution

Ultimately, our approaches should be geared towards building strong
and resourceful individuals who are able to challenge acts of
domination where possible through direct communication without
requiring the input of the whole collective/project. Establishing

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resources such as self-help groups may help towards this.

E. Exclusion and Retribution

In cases where it is not considered appropriate for a person to remain in
a collective, action will need to be taken to expel them. The harm
caused having been particularly serious, at this point the goal becomes
the establishment of safety, demonstrating love and solidarity with the
survivor(s), and helping them to find their power. These principles have
been shown to be vital to helping victims overcome trauma.

Translating those principles into action will mean expelling an individual
in a way that the survivor(s) are comfortable with. They may or may not
want to be involved, and may want others they particularly identify with
to form part of the group that carries it out (other women/people of
colour/queer/trans people etc.).

One concern is that expulsion does not 'solve' the problem, and
potentially just passes it onto other groups to deal with. Yet whether or
not we see this as a serious challenge depends very much on our
objectives. It underscores the importance of being conscious of and
flexible in those objectives (from 'transforming' the culprit, to
empowering victims & establishing safety, and so on), and of not being
constrained by the dogmas of different approaches. While expulsion
may seem like 'giving up' or passing the problem onto others, we also
have many enemies in the world who we wouldn't dream of sharing our
spaces with. We need to be watchful of falling foul of the missionary
complex: we have no duty to 'save' or 'transform' individuals, particularly
if we feel little affiliation with them. We don't think it's worth our while
trying to 'convert' cops or judges, so why would we think differently
about serial abusers?

In demonstrating love and solidarity and helping to empower survivors,
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other actions, such as publicly exposing the culprit, attacking their
property, or causing them physical harm. The important thing here is
that the survivor(s) are satisfied and given the power and respect to
take action. Again, to avoid 'getting it wrong', in cases where the
perpetrator is a member of the community/collective this should ideally
only be on the cards where the group has reached the decision that that
the individual cannot be reconciled, i.e. the decision has been carefully
considered beforehand.

Conclusion

No process is going to be free of pain and distress, but if we are to have
some degree of satisfaction with their outcomes whilst minimising their
impact on our collectives, we need to forgo dogmatism, question our
assumptions & objectives, and critically experiment with a range of
tools.

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Further Heading

Most of the following resources are available online:

Alex Gorrion et al. The Broken Teapot (critique of TJ)

Angustia Celeste, Safety is an Illusion: Reflections on Accountability

Bay Area Transformative Justice Collective (list of resources)
www.batic.wordpress.com

Community Accountability: ideas, actions, art, & resources for
communities responding to & transforming violence - resources
www.communitvaccountabilitv.wordpress.com

Ching-ln Chen et al. The Revolution Starts at Home: confronting
intimate violence within activist communities (Book)

Ching-ln Chen et al. The Revolution Starts at Home: confronting
partner abuse in activist communities (Zine)

Christine Sivell-Ferri et al. The Four Circles of Hollow Water.
Aboriginal Peoples Collection.

Creative Interventions, Creative Interventions Toolkit: A Practical
Guide to Stop Interpersonal Violence [pre-release version 06 . 2012 ]

Critical Resistance and INCITE!, ‘Women of Color against Violence
Statement on Gender Violence and the Prison Industrial Complex'

Generation FIVE, Toward Transformative Justice: A Liberatory
Approach to Child Sexual Abuse and other forms of Intimate and
Community Violence

Judith Flerman, Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence -
from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror (Book)

INCITE! Women of Color Against Violence, ‘Community
Accountability: Principles/Concerns/Strategies/Models Working

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Document '

Philly Survivor Support Collective, ‘Strategies for Survivors' (Philly
Survivor Support Collective: 9 April 2013)

Ravachol et al. Vive I'Anarchie!: I/legalist Trial Statements
(anarchists on crime & vengeance)

SOA Watch Taking The First Step: Suggestions To People Called
Out For Abusive Behavior

Various. What do we do when? A zine about community response to
sexual assault, Issue 2

Various, Dangerous Spaces: violent resistance, self-defense, and
insurrectional struggle against gender

List of projects doing work around TJ/related issues at
www.phillvstandsup.com

List (& online copies) of zines dealing with sexual assault and
community accountability at www.phillvspissed.net

Big thanks to the comrades who shared their thoughts and
experiences on these issues and supported & inspired me to put this
collection together. Much love to you.

Copies of this zine can be accessed at www. dvsophia. ora, uk

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‘‘None of us signed up for anarchy because we love participating in
exhausting, interminable processes to address the stupid ways
people hurt each other within our subcultural bubbles... When we
spend so much time and energy trying to resolve internal conflicts...
we risk cutting ourselves off from the passions that brought us
together in the first place. ”

C r im e t h 1 n s

Dysophia 5
a-lega ]|@tf ts eup.net

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